Dating is a traditional way of marriage. Different people have different views and attitudes towards it. Whether a person is excellent or not and whether he or she will go on a blind date depends mainly on personal values, life experiences, emotional needs and other factors.
In Chinese traditional culture, blind date is regarded as a formal way of marriage introduction, with a certain degree of social recognition and cultural background. Many people get to know their partners through blind dates, and have established beautiful families and happy marriages.
However, in modern society, with the development of society and the change of people's ideas, dating has gradually been questioned and challenged. Some people believe that there may be information asymmetry, forced marriage and other problems in the process of blind date, which may easily lead to unhappy marriage and family conflicts.
Therefore, no matter whether a person is excellent or will go on a blind date, he or she should make a choice according to his or her actual situation and needs, pay attention to his or her own values and quality of life, follow his or her heart and reason, and make the most appropriate decision.
There are fewer and fewer excellent boys in the dating market, which is also a normal phenomenon, because most excellent boys tend to be both talented and good-looking, and it is easy to find intimate partners in daily life and work. Marriage is also relatively early, so there is no need to go to the dating market to choose friends. This is the fundamental reason why there are few excellent boys in the dating market.
We can find that among the people who go on blind dates today, there are relatively few excellent boys and more excellent girls. Maybe everyone at different ages will give different answers to this matter. Today, I would like to share with you my personal views on this matter.
First of all, I think there may be fewer excellent boys among blind date people, because the boys themselves have a large base, which is easy to understand. If the group of boys is relatively large, then we may meet a variety of people, and excellent people are often relatively few, so we meet relatively, Ordinary boys may be more, because the definition of excellence and the selection criteria for excellence in this society are often scarce.
Secondly, I think that the reason why many girls meet boys by blind date is that they have high vision,
In real life, there may be few people who can get into their own eyes. There are many girls around me, all of whom are highly educated, with master's or doctoral degrees. However, they will find that it is rare to meet a person they really like, or a man whose conditions meet their own requirements, And most of the people who are willing to carry out academic research are girls. Because girls are more careful, when they contact other boys, it is difficult for them to meet a person they really like, so they will choose blind dates.
Finally, I think that the society is actually more realistic. There may be more topics for excellent people and excellent people to talk about together. So when we choose the other half, we will consider all aspects and find a person who is suitable for us. This is not a manifestation of power. Who doesn't want to find a person who shares the same ideals with us?
