Generally, after three to five meetings, when the relationship is closer, the man can tentatively pull the girl's hand. After dating for more than 3 times, you can try to hold hands. Hand holding is the premise of love. After hand holding, it can naturally develop into kissing and hugging. If it reaches these stages, it means that your relationship has reached the point where you can talk about marriage. Hand holding is a logical thing. But the success of holding hands does not mean that you can smoothly develop to the next step. Holding hands is just a transition, a process from ordinary friends to lovers. The factors that really determine whether you can become a couple are whether the personality, hobbies, values and outlook on life of both sides can be unified, and whether you can talk together. These are potential decisive factors.
Kissing is much closer than holding hands, so naturally it should be put after holding hands. Generally, people have to date at least 3 or 4 times for kissing. If the two parties have been able to make very natural physical contact, including holding hands and hugging when there is an appropriate opportunity, they can kiss.
Kissing is a thing that can only be done when you are deeply in love. If you start dating once or twice, it will appear that the girl is very unpretentious and leave a bad impression on the man that you are very casual.
You can hold hands for several dates
Holding hands is the first step of intimacy. If it is the first date of a blind date without any familiarity, it is more suitable for holding hands after two or three formal dates. As for the couple who sublimate from friends to lovers, because they are already familiar with each other and have a deeper sense of Qian, they can hold hands on the first or second date.
In the absence of a love relationship, it takes time for dating to hold hands and kiss. Don't be anxious to hold hands at the beginning of understanding. How many times can you hold hands and kiss on a date? In fact, you can try to hold hands after coming for about 5 times. You need to wait a little longer if you kiss.
Holding hands is a very common thing for couples. Holding hands is a great progress for friends who just started dating, which represents another step forward for the relationship between two people.
After three dates, you can know your heart and feel whether the other party has that kind of meaning for you. In fact, boys can try to hold hands when they meet for the third time.
If you are shy, you can hold hands by reading palms. At that time, girls would be more relaxed. If girls did not dislike or mind, boys could take her hand.
If the boy is more brave, he can directly hold the girl's hand because he has met several times. Even if the girl is a little reserved, she will not hesitate after seeing your clear attitude. On the contrary, she will be more happy and bump into each other.
If it is kissing, it really needs to wait. Boys will be more anxious and want to kiss the woman to express their feelings. But girls will be very reserved. After all, kissing is a very intimate action, which can only be done when the relationship is officially confirmed.
Hand in hand is very easy. Kissing requires not only emotion, but also atmosphere. When the atmosphere arrives, you are alone. When two people are close together, they can kiss each other. At this time, girls may avoid. Don't think that avoiding is just dislike. But girls think that the relationship between the two develops a little fast. After the boys take the initiative several times, girls won't avoid and then close their eyes to accept your kiss.
However, I would like to remind you that you must not force a kiss, and you must be willing to do so. Kissing is about feeling. It is not suitable for kissing when the other party has no feeling. Otherwise, it will be self defeating.
