Not every invitation in life is a good thing, and some invitations will cause trouble to themselves if they are not handled properly. Be careful of the following invitations.
1. Colleagues invite you to have dinner
What's the purpose and reason for him to ask you for dinner and company, and what effect he expects you to achieve in the past? You have to figure out before you decide whether to agree. If you think that the past is to eat, you must not eat well. Who still eats for eating now? They must eat for business. Whether he invited you to have dinner is to make you drink more, or to say more good words, or to let you collect the number of people. So your colleague must have a purpose when inviting you to have dinner and accompany him. Find out his purpose, evaluate his willingness and ability to meet his expectations, and then decide whether to go or not. Otherwise, if you go, he will complain about you if you don't eat well and haven't achieved the effect he wants. Everyone likes that meal, so don't go to this meeting casually.
2. An invitation to you as a witness
If someone invites you to act as a witness, for example, if he wants to explain something to his wife, or a leader, or a customer asks you to act as a witness, remember not to be a witness when you do not know what kind of intersection between him and the other party is, or the truth of the matter. The most you can tell him is what kind of facts you only know. If someone invites you to be a witness, for example, if you want to testify that he didn't hang out with other women on Saturday, don't testify. Just tell him what he called you on Saturday and what you did together. You only give a factual explanation and can't help him prove a certain conclusion. Otherwise, if you don't do a good job, you will get involved with the person concerned, or you may kill him and make up a lie with him.
3. Courtesy between colleagues
When dealing with affairs between colleagues, don't just slap on the head, because some people may care about this aspect. They are very concerned about who has more and who has less. The more such people are, the more careful they are. If you have to be casual, you should refer to the people you want to associate with and the opinions of others. Otherwise, you will be on the front with a slap on your head. Many people may have a good impression on you, but they may not be able to take it back. So in order to prevent the other party from having a negative impression on you, it's better to refer to everyone's opinions.
4. The other party invites you to stand out for him
It is possible that the other party will borrow your strength to pretend to be a tiger and pull you out to help him block the gun. This invitation must be good at analysis. The other party has a problem with others. If there is a conflict, let you stand up for him. If you don't make a good start, you will become the focus of the conflict. If the other party pulls you out as a tiger, you are not afraid to meet a hunter with a shotgun? So you must be careful when encountering such an invitation. You must rationally analyze what kind of conflicts he has with the people who are tying the knot, and what kind of role you play in the middle. If it is not convenient for you to get ahead, you can also give him some advice.
If you have the above invitations in your life, don't go to an appointment casually. If you must go to an appointment, you should also make analysis and preparation. Don't offend people when you go to an appointment.
