If a girl likes this man very much, it's OK to ask her to meet him. It's all about her to love someone, and she wants to meet her every day. Since she likes him to ask him out, it doesn't matter. People often say that they can't forget, and there must be an echo This does not mean that if you miss anyone, they will respond to you. Only those who are also concerned about you will know your warmth and sadness.
After a blind date, girls should take the initiative to contact boys. The pursuit of happiness has little to do with gender. If you like it, you should go after it, in case of success.
If it is the first time for you to meet on a blind date, you have a good impression on the other party. After you leave, you should let him reflect on you. This is the process of determining his impression on you. It is recommended not to contact actively at this time, but to wait and see what happens.
Except those boys who are very shy, most boys will chat with you in time or at least within three days if they have a good impression of you when they come home; Take the initiative to ask you for a second meeting within a week. If things develop like this, what else should you take the initiative to dress yourself up, pay more attention to his circle of friends, prepare some chat topics, and refrain from being impetuous when dating.
How can girls actively contact boys after blind date
1. Share interesting stories, have interactive topics with him, and let him feel that you are paying attention to him.
2. Pay attention to each other's friend circle, learn about their potential personality characteristics and interests, and find topics from their interests. Starting from this aspect, it may be possible to make your blind date interested in you.
3. Do not directly say what you like about him, do not directly express your feelings, but can hint that you can treat him appropriately. For example, ask him how he is every day, whether he has eaten or left work.
After a blind date, whether girls should take the initiative to find boys depends on how they feel about boys, and what may be the reason why boys don't take the initiative to contact themselves, whether they are too busy with work or don't like themselves. If they still want to take the initiative to find a man after having these ideas, they can take the initiative to find a man.
1、 Should girls take the initiative after blind date
1. If it is the first time for you to meet on a blind date, you have a good impression on the other party. After you leave, you should let him reflect on you. This is the process of determining his impression on you. It is recommended not to contact actively at this time, but to wait and see what happens.
2. Except those boys who are very shy, most boys will chat with you in time or at least within three days if they have a good impression of you when they come home; Take the initiative to ask you for a second meeting within a week. If things develop like this, what else should you take the initiative to dress yourself up, pay more attention to his circle of friends, prepare some chat topics, and refrain from being impetuous when dating!
3. If this is not the case, the boy must be busy (on business trip or something delayed). However, if he likes you, he will tell you where he is going on business trip and how long he is going on business trip by chatting!
Therefore, if the other person does not contact you within one week after the blind date, it must be that you give him a general impression! Next, we will suit the remedy to the case. After the blind date, what should you do if the other party does not contact you actively!
2、 After the blind date, the boy didn't take the initiative to contact you. What should the girl do
First of all, if the boy doesn't actively contact you, it is likely that your appearance and temperament do not meet his expectations. If not, it must be that the atmosphere you chat with him is not on the same channel! Of course, those men who do not take the initiative to date are excluded. Therefore, you need to improve your image, temperament and behavior. At the same time, here are some suggestions for you:
1. Share interesting stories, have interactive topics with him, and let him feel that you are paying attention to him. For example, the holiday is coming, talk about travel related things; What books and movies I saw; Interesting hot news and gossip can be shared. This kind of opening speech is easy and can reflect your quality of life.
2. Pay attention to each other's friend circle, learn about their potential personality characteristics and interests, and find topics from their interests. Starting from this aspect, it may be possible to make the other person interested in you!
3. Be nice to him in action instead of talking. You can not say anything, but you can be nice to him. For example, you can ask him how he is every day, whether he has eaten or left work. As long as the boy is not stupid, he must know what you mean. Who is interested in you in this world, you will be aware of it. It is actually playing dumb to say that you don't know about secret love.
4. Ask him how to spend the holiday. For example, during the May Day holiday, the Dragon Boat Festival, Valentine's Day and so on, I asked him about his plans! Both of them are single, and they hold together to keep warm and prevent abusive dogs. If they are interested in you, they will definitely want it~
5. Find the right opportunity or the right way to express yourself. If you feel uncomfortable and can't say it directly, send a text message and email to tell him what you think of him, and the other person will know what to do if he is interested.
6. If you want others to like you, let yourself be loved first. With the two-way development of appearance and temperament and internal cultivation, happiness will come faster~
Finally, it should be emphasized that the pursuit of happiness has nothing to do with gender. If you like it, you should pursue it, in case of success! Although there will be a lot of unhappiness on the way to follow, the end is that lovers will get married. Since no one has ever predicted the outcome, is it really so important to show your heart first? Remember, we are pursuing our own happiness, not just to please a person, don't you think?
3、 How to know whether the other party is suitable for you
1. The other party's appearance
People often say that "I don't care what he looks like or what he looks like". What I just want to say is nonsense. The first thing I see is people's appearance. Everything else is learned through communication. Everyone has a general idea of the other half, and they have imagined it. So when they first see the other side, do they look good at the other side? Not to mention how handsome the other side is, at least they can look good and comfortable.
2. Whether there are common topics in streaming
The most important thing in blind date is communication. Generally, the man will take the initiative to chat. At this time, both parties will find various topics to chat and get to know each other through chatting. When chatting, pay attention to whether the two sides have many common topics, whether there are many things to talk about, and whether there is often silence. In the process of chatting, whether the woman takes the initiative or the man takes the initiative can be seen whether there are obstacles in your communication and whether you agree. If you can talk, it will be smooth in future communication, otherwise it will be very embarrassing.
3. Man's character
The character of the other person covers a wide range. In fact, the focus is on whether the person is good in character, has any bad behavior, or can't stand some of his behaviors. This can be observed in the process of blind date.
4. The man's hobbies
What hobbies the other person usually has and what activities he or she will have after work can be seen through communication and further contact. The two people have the same hobbies and can play together. Otherwise, what's the fun of playing each other.
5. Values
This value refers to the view on certain things. To say big is the view on life and the world, and to say small is the consumption view on small things, such as buying a thing. Whether these two people's views are consistent is critical, which determines whether they are comfortable with each other.
6. View of marriage
The marriage view is the most important thing. Both of you must get along with each other to get married. Do you both have the same marriage view? Do you both value marriage very much, or do you think one side values marriage and the other is very casual. Whether two people are suitable or not is easy to see from this point. This is what the so-called 'different ways do not conspire' means.
7. Parents of both parties
Dating is a very realistic problem. Everyone considers different issues. Since you are dating, you should not be so naive and reckless as when you are in free love. On a blind date, the first thing to face is the parents of both parties. I need to think about what I think about the parents of the other half, or what conditions they have. Then choose whether you can accept being with the other party by observing or asking the people around you how their parents are.
8. Family conditions
When dating, the matchmaker first considers the family conditions of both parties, such as matching families. Although it is a blind date, people around you will have many opinions. At this time, you should also think about what you want, whether it is these external family conditions or what. After you think clearly, see whether the other party is satisfied, so that you can know whether you are suitable or not.
