When meeting a girl you like on a blind date, the process is relatively harmonious. After the blind date comes home, we must strike while the iron is hot to further close the relationship. How to talk after the blind date comes home? What do you talk about when you go home on a blind date? Simple greetings. When the blind date started, they were still strangers. After the blind date, they can ask the girl a simple greeting: "Are you at home? I am relieved that you are at home." At this time, do not continue to talk deeply with the girl. You can find a reason to retreat first.
This is to prevent girls from being busy with their own affairs. There is no problem in chatting with you. So when is the right time to talk to girls? Since you have added the other party's WeChat, you can chat with girls by observing their friends' circle. When a girl has time to send a circle of friends, it means that she is still free and can chat with the girl according to her circle of friends. If the girls are not active, you can chat with them after dinner (7-8 o'clock).
Open the topic with interesting things in life. The day after the blind date, we knew little about girls. Due to lack of understanding, we may start from "what are you doing" and then enter the mode of asking and answering questions because we can't find suitable topics to chat with girls. So we can start with a small video to share the interesting things around us, which is more interesting and novel. It is more attractive to girls than asking her "what's going on", and is more willing to let her reply. Learn to interrupt the chat. The purpose of our chat is to build attraction. When she is in a good attitude and high mood in chatting, it means that she has established attraction.
When the conversation ends happily, the girls will have the impulse to talk with you, and want to talk, to pave the way for the next chat or invitation. at large the better to apprehend him! Let her fall in love with you carelessly. Her mind fluctuates. How can I ask her again after the blind date? Judge when she is interested in herself. After the blind date, if she wants to launch another invitation, also judge whether she is interested in us and satisfied with the blind date. At this time, we can judge by teasing and pets. I think you are shy today. I can't believe that you also like puppies. You are different from what I imagined. You started from talking or meeting on a blind date. If a girl is satisfied with the blind date, she can judge it by the number of words she replies and the speed of recovery.
After the blind date, you can start with small details, praise, and share the latest movies to chat with the woman on WeChat.
1. Pay attention to small details.
At the beginning of the communication, because neither of us is familiar with each other, we can start the conversation from the other's circle of friends and nickname. For example, which city she has been to recently, you can mention your story in that city, etc. The most important thing for chatting is to let each other have "common feelings".
2. Praise is very important.
I don't know what to say, let's praise her more! "Why do you look different from the photo?" At this time, the other person will be unhappy. Then you can add a sentence "You look much better than the photo!" The other person will turn from cloudy to sunny.
3. Share recent movies.
From the type of movie watching, you can well detect each other's tastes and interests. If you have seen the same movie, you can also exchange your experience. This is a good way to initially judge whether the other party and you have the same language. Talk about the latest movie, and then you can naturally say, "Let's go to see it some other day!"
What are the ways to chat after blind date
1. Simple greetings
At the beginning of the blind date, the two were still strangers. After the blind date, you can ask the girl "Are you at home? I'm relieved that you are at home." Simple greetings. Don't continue to talk with girls at this time. You can find a reason to retreat first.
This is to prevent girls from being busy with their own affairs and chatting with you impeccably. So when is it appropriate to chat with girls? Now that we have added each other's WeChat, we can chat with her by observing the dynamics of her circle of friends. When a girl has time to send a circle of friends, it means that she is still free and can chat with the girl according to the content of her circle of friends. If the girl doesn't send messages, you can talk with the girl after dinner (7-8 o'clock).
2. Start with interesting life stories
The day after the blind date, we still knew little about girls. Due to lack of understanding, when chatting, we may start from "what are you doing" and enter the awkward chat mode of "question and answer" because we can't find a suitable topic.
Therefore, we can start the topic by taking a small video and sharing interesting things around us without the help of script. This more interesting topic seems novel at the beginning. This is more attractive and more willing to let her answer than asking her "What are you doing?".
3. Learn to interrupt chatting
The purpose of our chat is to build attraction. When she has a good attitude and is in high mood in chatting, it means that attraction has been established. When she is happy to end the conversation, the girl will have the impulse to talk to you, want to talk, and prepare for the next chat or invitation. The more, the better! Let her fall in love with you inadvertently in the small fluctuations of her heart.
