It is not accurate that men know the result at the first sight of a blind date. Everyone's feelings and judgments are subjective, and we can't simply use the first impression to decide whether it is suitable for each other.
In the process of blind date, men need to communicate and understand many times to better understand the woman's personality, interests, values and other aspects. Only after in-depth understanding can we make more accurate and rational judgments.
In addition, blind dates also need to give each other some time and opportunities to adapt and understand each other. Even if the man has a good impression on the woman at the first sight, he needs to further confirm and deepen his feelings through multiple meetings and exchanges.
Therefore, men should keep an open mind during the dating process, respect the wishes and decisions of the woman, and also express their thoughts and feelings frankly. Only in this way can we establish a healthier and more stable relationship.
Does the first sight of a blind date matter
Since it is a blind date, we should pay more attention to the understanding of both parties, because the other party is the person who will accompany you through life. After all, blind date is different from love. The feeling of "love at first sight" is the prelude to marriage. Many people who finally get together are not the ones who make you excited at first. Therefore, the first impression is not the most important. Many times, we always show our best side to strangers to win favor. What we see is often not the truth, with great blindness, so the important thing is to slowly discover and gradually adapt.
First, talk about life, tell your own story, experience, and see the other side's reaction. Say more about your interests, find common ground between you and talk about some common topics. Of course, there will be minor frictions occasionally. Don't rush to argue, cater to the other party appropriately, make the other party feel good, and then make further personal feelings and life exchanges. Whenever we keep in proper contact, it's easy to be disgusted to talk too much at the beginning. Every night, we call to say hello and express our concern, but the other party feels caring.
How important the first impression is when dating, mainly in these aspects.
First, you need to dress up carefully when meeting for the first time, such as a blind date. After all, the first meeting will leave a deep impression. Take an interview for example. If the first impression is bad, the examiner will only ask normally, but will not care about you too much. So the blind date is similar. If the man is untidy, the girl will be in no mood after reading it. If the woman doesn't dress up very much and looks dirty, the man may not have much desire to communicate when seeing her on a blind date. There is a saying that men choose women by sight and women choose men by smell.
Second, the impression of the first meeting is not good. If you communicate later, the other person may wear colored glasses. After all, it is the first time to meet, no matter how you dress or how you behave, you should do better. If you meet for the first time on a date and you see the other person dressed casually, your impression of others will certainly not be good.
The third aspect is that the first sight is more important when making a blind date. Whether to close the eyes or not is judged according to the first impression. Although personality is very important, it is only after a good first impression that you are interested in understanding it. Dating is not like our free love. Free love is to explore the inner beauty slowly. So the first feeling of a blind date is very important.
Fourth, if it is a blind date between two people who have never met before, it can only rely on the first impression of the first meeting. For example, whether the face is handsome, whether the dress is suitable, whether the conversation is appropriate, and so on. Because it is the first time, both sides decide whether to continue the communication based on the first impression. As for character, it can't be determined in a blind date.
The fifth aspect is that a good first impression of a blind date will be preconceived. When an event or a person forms an impression in their mind, they will naturally have some opinions about him. However, as time changes, they find that some facts are different from the original conclusions they reached. At this time, most people usually find some reasons to convince themselves.
