It is not true that three months after disconnection, you will turn back. Because this statement has no scientific basis, it cannot be proved to be true. Everyone's emotional experience is different, and whether they will turn back after disconnection mainly depends on personal circumstances and emotional changes.
Some people may turn back because they miss each other, feel uneasy or need emotional needs, while others will put the past aside for various reasons and never turn back.
Therefore, we cannot judge whether the relationship can be repaired by the standard of "three months after disconnection, we will turn back". When it comes to feelings, we should decide whether to take action according to the specific situation. After all, there are many factors affecting the development of feelings, and we can't simply apply a fixed statement.
Method of recovering contact after disconnection
1. Sending information: you can send information through SMS, WeChat, email, etc. to express your thoughts and wishes to the other party, hoping to re-establish contact.
2. Call: You can contact the other party by phone, express your thoughts and wishes directly, and ask about the other party's situation to restore contact.
3. Social network: You can contact each other through social networks such as WeChat and QQ, or through common friends or groups.
4. Write a letter: you can write a letter to express your thoughts and wishes to the other party, hoping to re-establish contact, which may be more sincere and touching.
5. Face to face communication: If conditions permit, you can try to communicate face to face with the other party, express your ideas and aspirations, and strive to re-establish contact.
According to the psychological adaptation period of the public, 7-15 days after the breakup is still in the period of emotional outburst. At this time, the two are often in a cautious state of passive attack, and it is difficult to really establish contact.
15-30 days is the time when the other party begins to miss you. At this time, your presence can refresh the other party's cognition, but if you are eager to make peace, the other party will avoid rejection.
30-60 days is a habit forming process, which constantly paves a comfortable emotional environment for the other party to adapt and enjoy the rhythm of chatting with you.
The next 60-90 days will be the key period for restructuring, because the other party's emotional concentration is relatively low and the degree of nostalgia for you is relatively high, so it is most conducive to restructuring. At this stage, you may say that for a girl who has compromised, marriage is really difficult. As a boy, she acted instead? For example, when you want to invite someone to eat an apple, you accidentally drop it on the ground, and then you wash it and give it to the other person. For the first time, although the other party was a little unhappy, he still accepted Apple gladly. But if you fall on the ground when you are ready to hand it to him for the second time after washing, you may not intentionally, but the other person will feel bad and tell you to thank him for not eating.
So always tell my visitors not to rush to recover. Even if I'm lucky, it doesn't mean anything. You may forget your sense of propriety and scars again because your recovery is too smooth.
Because everyone's breakup situation is different, the time suitable for disconnection is also different. Not everyone who wants to recover will be disconnected for three months.
It is normal for a relationship to go on and off, but with the increasing number of conflicts, the relationship between two people will become more and more strange. It is very hurt to quarrel. If you really love each other, you should restrain your bad temper. If necessary, give the other person some time to calm down and sort out the relationship between you two. As the saying goes, a day without seeing is like three years apart. Someone asked if it was true that after three months of disconnection, you would return? How to save each other's heart after a quarrel?
1. Is it true that after three months of disconnection, you will turn back?
Is it true that you will turn back after three months of disconnection? Whether the other party will turn back depends on the feelings between the two people. If you ignore each other because of some minor contradictions when you are deeply in love, then during the three-month calm period, the other party will repeatedly jump between recovery and breakup, and finally will choose to turn back because of your attachment. Of course, if the other party is tired of you, the three months of disconnection just gives him a chance to stay away from you.
2. How to save each other's heart after a quarrel?
Women like sweet talk, while men like sweet talk. If you want to save each other's heart after a quarrel, first of all, you should show your atmosphere in front of the other party, take the initiative to say something about the other party, let the other party feel your love, let the other party know that you attach enough importance to him, and then take the initiative to express that you can't continue life without the other party, The other party will naturally turn around.
3. When will a relationship end
Many relationships are hot at the beginning, but eventually they become dull with the passage of time. If you want to keep your love hot, you should learn to warm up your love, make some surprises from time to time, communicate in time when you encounter problems, and learn to think from the other side's perspective As long as you pay enough attention to your love and work hard for it, your relationship will be better and better.
