If it is true love, men will generally be very enthusiastic to pursue girls, and even stupid boys will be proactive when pursuing girls they like. Unless they like it very much and have no better, they can only get along like this first. In fact, it is another kind of spare tire. When better girls appear, they will find reasons to break up.
Hot and cold is the manifestation of dealing with the spare tire. As a girl, you should consider clearly that such a man is unreliable.
If it's hot and cold, it means that she doesn't care about people who care about you. People who don't let you suffer from this kind of hot and cold may be enthusiastic about you in nature. It's OK at ordinary times. I'm tired of it. It's obviously not her attitude towards others. Do you think it's interesting? Sometimes it's really hard to make a change. Maybe some people can be moved. Some people on the other side can't be moved for such a long time. If you feel sad, you hurt yourself, but you have no influence on others. If you think such a day is interesting. You can continue to insist, but I suggest you change people early to avoid hurting others and yourself.
Whether a person who is hot and cold to you deserves your love depends on many factors, including but not limited to the following:
1. His personality characteristics: A person's character is the basis of his attitude towards others. If the person's character is sensitive, inferiority, vulnerable, or irritable, selfish, then he may be hot and cold to you, because it is difficult for them to control their emotions. On the contrary, if the person's character is mature, stable, kind and sincere, they may treat you more stably.
2. His feelings for you: In addition to personality characteristics, a person's feelings for you are also one of the factors to consider whether you are worthy of love. If this person has real feelings for you and cares about you, he may not ignore your emotional needs or your emotional fluctuations for a long time. On the contrary, if this person only treats you as an alternative or a toy, they may treat you coldly and hotly to achieve their own goals.
3. Your feelings for him: Finally, your feelings for him are also one of the factors that determine whether he is worthy of love. If you also have true feelings for this person and care about him very much, then his hot and cold may not have too much impact on you. On the contrary, if you don't care too much about this person or his hot and cold makes you sad, then you may not be willing to continue to give your feelings.
To sum up, whether a person who is hot and cold to you is worthy of your love needs to consider many factors. If you think that this person really has feelings for you and cares about you, then his ups and downs may not have a great impact on you. But if you feel that this person is not worthy of your love or his behavior makes you feel uneasy, then you may need to reconsider your emotional input and focus.
