Each of us will meet people who like us but don't like us in our life. When we meet the person we like, we all want to win for ourselves, hoping that through our own efforts, we can get the love of the person we like. However, sometimes, when we are trying to pursue the people we like, maybe because the people we like do not like us, they will be very cold to us, and love to ignore us. So if the girl you like is indifferent to you, will you continue to pursue her? Here are my opinions:
1、 If the girl I like doesn't respond to me, I won't continue to pursue her
If the girl I like doesn't respond to me, it fully shows that the girl I like doesn't like me. For the girl who doesn't like me, no matter how hard I try, I can't make her feel for me. So if the girl I like doesn't respond to me, I won't continue to pursue her.
2、 Sticking to people who don't like themselves will only make them hate themselves more
And it is actually a very disgusting thing to be pursued by someone you don't like. If a girl doesn't like herself any more, she likes to answer her question, and her son and sister still pursue her, it will only make the girl more disgusted with herself.
3、 Emotion is a matter of two people
There are a lot of unrequited love in this world. There are many unrequited loves. Maybe everyone has experienced unrequited love, but unrequited love will not develop into love. Emotion is a matter of two people. It is necessary for two people to be able to fall in love and have feelings. Therefore, when the person we like doesn't respond to our love, we should learn to give up and find the person who has the same heart with us.
Don't be so mean. Since she is indifferent to you, it means that she doesn't care about you at all. Why should you persist! The more you cling to her, the lower you will be in her heart. This will backfire. Cool her for a while and see how she reacts. If she takes the initiative to find you or chat, you may still have a chance. If she has been silent, you'd better give up thinking about her. Try friends, maybe you will have a spring.
In love, the person who falls in love first always loses the initiative first, and becomes humble and insignificant in front of the other person. When I was in a nervous mood, I edited messages of concern and thought about waiting for each other's words after sending them out without interrupting their work and rest time. However, occasionally a response from the other party will make you dance happily. The sweet smile will last all day.
People who like them always ignore themselves. Obviously, this relationship is in an unequal state.
To move a person who loves you, it is just your little expression of being wronged; To move a person who doesn't love you, no amount of effort is futile. Therefore, there are two options for people who like to ignore themselves:
First, give up.
If you still can't get a response from the other party after a period of time, just give up bravely. It is tiresome and irritable to indulge in a kind of unilateral emotion for a long time. Sometimes, to let go bravely is a kind of beauty.
Maybe you will say, "I like TA, it's just my own thing." Then why should I care about the other party's attitude towards you? If you ignore it, you can ignore it. Anyway, you don't need a response from the other party. Obviously, few people really do it. Unilateral like, for a person is suffering. Sometimes the end is also a good thing.
Second, brave confession.
Since you are always indifferent to yourself, and you really want to improve this state, then you should bravely confess to yourself face to face. It's better to bask in the sun than secretly like it alone. For your love and future happiness, why not be brave once?
If you succeed in expressing yourself, it will be just to your heart. Holding hands with your TA in your mind is the happiest thing.
If the confession fails, there is nothing to regret. For one thing, do your best. The rest is left to fate. It is enough to have tried hard.
