In your life, do you suddenly lose confidence in everything, do not want to do anything, have no passion, and are depressed, even if you want to do something, you will not develop as you think. Why do you meet life without passion? There are three reasons.
1. Encountered an unfriendly growth environment
In fact, whether you are frustrated or failed, if you are in a relatively positive and encouraging environment, a relatively inclusive environment, you will not lose confidence so easily, because everyone has expectations of you. For the family we may grow up in, our parents can't see what kind of changes we have or what kind of progress we have. They always say that we are not good at anything. Slowly, our self-confidence will be difficult to build up. This is an unfriendly growth environment. In addition, when we went to school and worked, did the colleagues around us find that they could not get involved, and if you made a small mistake, it would be used as a joke by others. These unfriendly growth environments make us feel wrong when we do something, so we simply stop doing it and feel that we can do nothing.
2. Experienced major decision mistakes
In real life, some people are defeated, depressed, and have no passion in their life. It may be because they think too optimistic and have great expectations before doing something, but soon this matter will bring shame on themselves. There is no good result, or even a result of being laughed at by others. For example, if you want to start a business, before starting a business, you must promise your parents that you must do something. How can your parents persuade you? Unexpectedly, this matter will soon be shameful. If you fail to do it, you will face your parents shamelessly. Even if you borrow money from friends around you, you will not be able to face the views of friends around you. Therefore, you may be depressed after experiencing major decision-making mistakes. But we need to know that it is normal for life to go through ups and downs. No one is smooth. Now any famous person has stumbled many times, so experiencing major decision-making mistakes is not a reason for failing.
3. The negative way of thinking is making mistakes
In real life, many people habitually think of some bad results before doing something, or always think of all kinds of negative scenes when executing this thing. What kind of mistakes may I make in this regard, and what kind of mistakes may I encounter in that regard. If you go through them in advance, think of a remedy plan in advance, and let yourself be prepared to come and solve them, you are also a rational and confident person, but most people are afraid of doing anything after thinking about them. You should know that a person can accomplish something not only by his ability, but also by his courage and confidence in doing it. You have the confidence and momentum to maximize your ability. Just like many people go to an interview, they begin to think of all kinds of mistakes they encounter before meeting the interviewer. What if the interviewer asks me a question and I can't answer it? What should I do if I am dismissed because of insufficient details in clothing? If you go ahead of time and do not come here prepared, but only go to the interview with concerns about this aspect, you will certainly fail, because these concerns will affect your performance. So many of us are worrying about nothing. We take it for granted that we have set obstacles and limited our ability to play.
So if you sometimes find yourself in a negative mood or without passion in your life, you should first think about the above reasons, whether they are worth it or not, and how to adjust them. Only by understanding the reasons behind them can you find the right medicine.
