First, we should follow him and spoil him. Then wait until he calms down before reasoning with him. Let him calm himself. And you choose silence. You can also do something silently for him. If your girlfriend makes trouble with you for no reason, in fact, whatever you say at that time is wrong, no matter what you do or say, it is wrong. And he just wants to get your attention. You might as well give up the previous views at this time, not to reason with him, and hug him tightly. It's enough to tell her I love you. Then let him act like a coquette, beat and scold, hold him tightly when he calms down, and tell his wife that you can stop being angry? In this way, your girlfriend will not be angry with you. In fact, all girls like to act coquetry, make trouble without reason, and be spoiled, because sometimes she knows she is making trouble without reason, but because he loves you, he believes in you enough, and you give her enough security. He wants to enjoy the feeling of being spoiled by you, and enjoy the feeling of being indulged by you without fear. Like you makes her feel that you are her boyfriend in his heart, so you should let this be. In fact, at this time, you might as well let her let him wait until later to reason with him.
Spoil her
When your girlfriend makes trouble out of nothing, you can first follow him to spoil him. He is right in everything he says. You can do whatever he asks you to do, and you can say whatever he asks you to say, because a girl can't listen to what her boyfriend says to her at this time. You should reason with him at this time. Explain to him. He won't listen. You'd better spoil him according to him. You can do what he wants you to do. In fact, he just wants to be spoiled by you. You should let him know that he can be coquettish unconditionally here. Then wait until he makes trouble for no reason. After he calms down, you can communicate with him and tell him where he is right and wrong, so that he can remember long and never make this mistake again.
Choose Silence
In fact, at this time, your girlfriend knows that she is making trouble for nothing, but when you don't talk at this time, he will be very sad later, and the more you talk, the more you may do wrong. So, at this time, you should choose silence appropriately. Be silent when it is time to be silent, and coax him when it is not time to be silent. Girls are used to spoil, because you give her enough sense of security.
Do something for him silently
If your girlfriend happens to be acting coquettish or angry with you for no reason. Then you can quietly clean, wash clothes, cook, or do other things within your power. Let him see what you are doing, so that he will feel that you also care about him. Do something that he is angry with, and change some of the problems he is angry with. Then he smiled and said to her, "My wife, you see that when I do this, he will not be so angry. You go forward and hug her tightly, maybe her anger will disappear, and she will no longer make trouble without reason. Then you can tell her that it is OK to be angry again.". But the vexatious temper must be changed! In this way, your life will be more and more happy in the future.
In life, most women more or less have a little temper and sometimes make trouble without reason. This is a normal phenomenon.
When treating them, the lover is the lover. Don't ask her like a brother or friend. Women can add some fun to life by occasionally playing small, right? Women are born to be cared by men!
Women are like water, and need careful care from men. However, there is also a saying that women at the foot of the mountain are tigers. It depends on what mentality men use to treat women.
A woman is like a rabbit when she is harmless, gentle and lovely. However, a crazy woman is a red wolf, whose danger is no less than the 5.4 earthquake. At this time, as a man, he should dare to pull out his teeth. The good way to curb his bad temper is to ignore her and let her fight!
Every woman likes to be praised. No matter right or wrong, a woman's mind is always more emotional than rational. As a man, he should always remember to give women candy. Don't forget, if you praise more and love more, why do women make trouble without reason. At this time, make her a cup of fermented eggs to improve her mood. You can also give yourself a good figure!
Physiological period reaction: some women are usually reasonable, gentle, lovely, approachable, and always greet each other with a smile; But every month there are always a few days to make a fuss, make a mountain out of a molehill, and be irritable.
At this time, we should understand her, pay more attention to her, and let her go when she is in trouble. Even if she has nothing to do, we should be used to it. We should take the initiative to admit mistakes and not find reasons.
No matter what wrong or right a woman is making a fuss about, don't make a fuss. Women are like flowers. When flowers fail, learn to love their women. Be good to their women. Don't be stingy with masks and cosmetics used by women
When love rises to kinship, she makes trouble without reason. A dinner is enough. Remember: it doesn't matter if a man is strong outside, and it doesn't matter if he is weak at home, because you are always "one family".
A tigress usually describes a wife who is strong and fierce. There are both good and bad things about such a wife in the family. What should we do if the wife is strong and unreasonable? How to deal with unreasonable wives is better. Let's learn together.
1、 What to do if the wife is strong and unreasonable
1. Recognize your problems. There must be a reason why a woman is angry when there is no wind, and besides her own reasons, of course, there are also some things that the other half did to his disadvantage. The other half is not good at dealing with things. She is slow and always procrastinates. She is not like a man, so women will feel very tired. Anyone who has such a husband will be tired.
2. Pay more attention to praise your wife. The wife is short tempered and irritable, probably because she has accumulated depression for too long. Think about whether you are usually indifferent to her. Remember to spend more time with your wife and praise her. Don't always use busy work as an excuse. When a woman entrusts her generation to a man, she certainly hopes to feel full of happiness.
2、 How to deal with unreasonable wives
1. Appropriate tolerance
It is not easy for two people to be together, and it is even more difficult to get married after being together. You should cherish this hard won relationship. In some small matters, if the other party makes a mistake, you can tolerate it properly. Don't bite the other party's mistakes, everyone will make mistakes sometimes. Your wife is very strong in your eyes. Maybe you are weak in her eyes and don't care much about family affairs. Therefore, it is harmless to be tolerant of each other's shortcomings under appropriate circumstances, but the other party is too excessive, so there is no need to be tolerant. At that time, tolerance will become indulgence.
2. Think from the other side's perspective
When you think your wife is unreasonable, why don't you listen to her? She may also think you are unreasonable. Sometimes you think about problems from her point of view, maybe you will have a new understanding. When she came home after a day's work, she saw the house was in a mess and was already very tired. She was also busy cleaning and cooking for you and the children. In this case, anyone would nag. If you were not good to her, she would lose her temper. Of course, it could be other cases. So stand in the other side's point of view to think about the problem, you will know why she is so strong.
3. Timely communicate with the other party
Communicate with each other in a timely manner before encountering anything. Don't hold everything in your heart. If you think your wife's behavior has hurt you, you should actively communicate with her, tell her you don't want her to do this, and let her be gentle with you. When communicating with her, try to be gentle and not too excited. In your opinion, this may be a good way to communicate with her, but in her opinion, you are scolding her. If you don't pay attention to the way and method of communication, your relationship will become more tense, and your wife may become more powerful.
4. Seek help from others
Sometimes it is impossible to solve some problems by yourself. If you can't solve it yourself, it's better to seek help from others. You can go to your parents or trusted friends. Tell them about your situation and troubles. They will certainly help you, because they all care about you. Don't be afraid to tell them about this matter. They will laugh at you and despise you. If you don't tell them, they may never know. Their suggestions and methods may help you solve this matter better.
