Character is a kind of right bestowed on us by God. Many times people think that one person attracts another because his appearance is too outstanding, but this is not the case. What attracts one person more is his soul and character. Bad tempered women may not be unreasonable, but unreasonable women are really bad tempered.
What makes her bad tempered
Personally, in a relationship, a woman is always angry and grumbling, which means that she can't feel happy in a marriage. Think about whether she was a resentful wife when you married him. If not, there was a problem with the marriage you were working together. Don't think about divorce too early, but think about the reason why you have become such a relationship. Occasional quarrels between husband and wife can improve their relationship, but if every day there is an uproar, it must be a marriage problem. Most of the time, a woman's energy is spent on her family. She not only has no free time of her own, but also has no opportunity to go out to work. If a man fails to pay attention to the needs of a woman's inner world, she will be very irritable.
Understand women's hard work
Many men think that women are very relaxed. They just give birth and take care of their children at home to do some housework. One day has passed, while men not only have to do some nerve racking things outside, but also have trouble communicating with different people, which makes people very tired. But the man who still thinks like this is really backward, because he can't understand the hard work of women and the extent to which women pay for a family. Taking care of children is enough to make a woman collapse, because he does not have enough rest time, and he only cries repeatedly. More importantly, the man is not around, or the man ignores the crying of children, which makes a person very cold. I think it is necessary for you to go down and find out why your wife is so irritable, and express your understanding of her, which may ease your strained relationship.
Don't think about divorce without thinking. Maybe the next one is not as good as the current one!
The most important thing in the case of an unreasonable wife is to have a tolerant heart. Don't always quarrel with her. This will only make her feel that you are a person without tolerance. You can try to communicate with your wife more, tell her that you love her, and you will not be separated from her, let her know that you really want to live a good life with her, rather than just want to quarrel with her, so that your wife can understand you and won't make such an unreasonable quarrel. If your wife still refuses to listen, you can only choose to divorce her, because your wife is so unreasonable. If you don't divorce her, you will have a hard time in the future, so you'd better divorce your wife earlier.
It's really troublesome to meet an unreasonable wife. A lot of people will say, talk to your wife, but some women do not know what they can do. It is useless for you to say anything. She is a normal person only when she is happy.
No matter who is always reasonable, your wife should still have her weaknesses. You should start from her weaknesses. For example, she loves children very much. You can communicate with her through children. You can also communicate with her more through her mother, family and things. A woman likes to listen to her family. You can care more about her family members and gain her trust in you. Over time, we should see the effect.
