In the face of visitors who always come uninvited, how on earth can we order them to leave without hurting the harmony and at the same time make ourselves happy? Sometimes in our life, some people come with you uninvited, and sometimes it will delay your working time and rest time. What should we do about uninvited people? Let's teach you three moves.
First of all, we need to know that some neighbors, or whether they are particularly well behaved friends, always come to talk with you without invitation. You wanted to read some books and deal with some things, but they always talk to you about some things of their parents, Li Jiashort, which are topics you don't care about. At this time, if we ask him to leave, we are afraid of hurting our relationship. It is very annoying not to ask him to leave. Some friends use the wrong way of asking people to leave. They are rude and even hurt people's self-esteem. After that, they will never come again. As a result, they will not contact with you again. The next time you find someone hot, they will not be hot for you. In addition, if you ask him for help, he will not help you. Of course, there is another wrong way of chasing customers, which is perfunctory. If someone asks you to chat enthusiastically, your perfunctory face will make the other person very unhappy. If someone sticks a hot face on your cold buttocks, they will have something to say. So what can we do to avoid hurting each other's feelings? Remember the following three tips.
First move: euphemistic reminder
You can make it clear to the other party that there is just time tonight for us to have a good talk, or we just have a good talk about this topic, but what will be prepared tomorrow. Such a reminder is equivalent to saying hello to the other party. Don't come tomorrow. You didn't tell him not to come tomorrow, but he will also know that it is inappropriate to come tomorrow. Sometimes you can even say directly, "I will pick up the children later, why don't we talk about this today?" Give the other party a more objective reason, and the other party can understand.
The second move: stick a strip on the door to make a unified announcement
This kind of stickers on the door is not aimed at a certain person, so anyone who sees them will not think that it is aimed at him, because you are sticking them here to show everyone. For example, if you put a note on your door saying "Please don't disturb me while we are recording lessons in closed class recently", he will also be interested if he sees it.
So if you always meet people who come to you uninvited, and you have something to do, you can use the above three moves to deal with it. I believe you will achieve the goal of chasing customers without hurting their feelings.
