The couple's performance is that they sleep together with their backs to play mobile phones.
Nowadays, mobile phones have become a necessity in everyone's life. Sometimes when you leave your phone, you will feel uneasy because it is your most private and private world. This makes many couples unwilling to communicate even if they sleep in the same bed. Instead, they play with their mobile phones back to back. No matter chatting, playing games or watching TV plays, the two people will not say a word from the moment they lie down.
In fact, this marriage state is extremely sad. The couple are busy working during the day, and only when they lie in bed at night can they have the opportunity to communicate and exchange. However, when we spend all our time playing with mobile phones, it is actually equivalent to giving up these few communication opportunities. In the long run, two people will lose the desire to communicate. Although they are lying in the same bed, they are living in two different worlds, and their hearts are farther and farther apart.
Very little communication
Because life is filled with chores such as work, housework and child care, there are fewer opportunities for two people to communicate. Eating, drinking and sleeping should be the only way to promote the relationship between husband and wife. Although many people think that eating is eating, nothing more than three meals a day. It's no big deal. In fact, eating is also an extremely important communication platform for couples. Because in the process of eating, we can talk about what we have seen and heard every day.
You can talk about your embarrassing or happy experiences, or simply talk about what you want to eat. After dinner, two people start to clean up the dishes and wipe the table together, which can still form a happy picture in the process. But in most families, at the couple's table, the two people just eat with their heads shut and don't speak, which is almost suffocating.
Six signs of marriage breakdown: What are the five manifestations of a couple's inability to survive?
1. No matter what difficulties the other party has, they don't miss each other. I will not think for each other.
2. They don't go ahead if they have something to do. Even if there is something happy or unhappy, do not actively communicate with each other. Because you ignored his existence.
3. In my heart, I hate each other, despise each other, and think everything is wrong.
4. There are many infidelities in marriage. Even half of them decide to fall in love with other lovers.
5. Because of family affairs, small love has been very noisy, and the other side can not see the end of life.
The most taboo between husband and wife must be mutual suspicion. When you don't trust each other in marriage, your relationship is getting weaker and weaker. You don't trust another person. Why should you give half your life to that person? This marriage is not happy, and there is no solid sex. There are five manifestations of the couple's inability to survive.
Four Phenomena Marriage Ends
1. When a man starts to ignore your feelings, no matter what you say or what you do, the other person will disagree with you.
2. The most unacceptable thing for women is that this man will choose to hit you when he is different from your views or practices, because he has no love in his heart.
3. How can a person who doesn't want to be married with you again and doesn't even want to touch you have that kind of love?
4. Divorce is often talked about. A person who cares so much no matter whether you have face or not, no matter how you feel, always wants to divorce, and is willing to leave after divorce. He has no idea what you think.
Don't always embarrass yourself. If you are unhappy in your marriage, you should learn to adjust your marriage and never let yourself fall into pain.
