The feeling of love between husband and wife is exhausted. Usually, in the early stage, when two people start a cold war, they don't care about each other. Home has no taste of home, no laughter, leaving only a cold face, cold cooking stove. In the middle of the period, they began to sleep in separate beds and rooms. They no longer had skin relatives, no husband and wife, and left one to sleep alone. At this time, the two were just nominally married, and their relationship was barely maintained by marriage certificate and love for children.
Two people can meet, two people can get together, it's really not easy, not all loving two people can go to marriage, not all male and female friends are successful, it's really not easy to get together, generally speaking, there are seven performances between husband and wife, saying that the fate is over!
1. Between husband and wife, they hate each other. You can't stand me, I can't stand you, you don't like me, I don't like you. Two people cheat each other together, without any sincerity. Everything they do is very annoying and disliked by each other!
2. Although the husband and wife live in the same family, they live in separate lives. They do not owe each other or interfere with each other. It is difficult to even achieve the most basic communication between them!
3. There will be a lot of quarrels and quarrels between two people because of little things. They will always quarrel about trivial things!
4. After the conflict between the two people, they are unwilling to bow down and deal with the problem, so the cold war has been going on, and the problem will only become more and more serious!
5. There is no common language between the two people. The only topic to talk about is children. If there is no child, the two people will not stick to it at all. Maybe they will have divorced long ago!
6. In marriage, he is unfaithful to love, betrays marriage, extramarital feelings, cheats, and is found by the other party with an indifferent attitude, which really hurts the other party's heart!
7. It was good to be together with two people. The life between husband and wife was also very happy. Everyone envied the couple, but later they became worse day by day. Neither of them liked to touch the other, and they hated each other!
13 manifestations of the end of marriage:
1. Two people always quarrel. As long as they meet, they quarrel. They don't communicate with each other, and they always fall into an impasse.
2. Even if there is a long vacation, two people do not choose to travel with each other.
3. Your life will become dull. Two people are always cold together, and there is nothing to talk about.
4. They don't care about each other. They feel that they have nothing to do with themselves. They care about each other's everything.
5. At this time, I will be particularly keen on social activities. I will go out as soon as I have a friend's appointment.
6. At this time, you will find that there is no group photo of two people on the surface. Maybe the group photo is in the collection room.
7. There is an idea of leaving quietly, because I don't know how to face each other, so I want to leave quietly.
8. There is no fun in life, and the two people live in an ordinary way.
9. Everyday life is very depressing, giving people a state of breathlessness.
10. It is estimated that even sleeping in the same bed is a different dream.
11. After the marriage ends, you will find that two people will always have separate beds.
12. There is no emotion, even nothing to say, no communication between people.
13. There are always quarrels in life, and sometimes they fight against each other.
Symptom 1: no longer willing to compromise
There is debt in any relationship maintenance. It is because of the existence of debt that each other wants to better repay the other, which has become an important fetter in the relationship between husband and wife. When the husband and wife are no longer willing to compromise, they always adhere to their own principles regardless of the major issues, which means that they no longer value such constraints.
Symptom 2: no longer respect each other
Respect is the first prerequisite for harmonious coexistence. When the husband and wife no longer respect each other, it means that each other has no place in the other's heart. This lack of status also brings about a reduction in the sense of existence. It is very close, but can not reach empathy.
Symptom 3: Unconditional long-term separation
It is true that many modern couples live apart for a long time because of work and other reasons, but there are still some who choose to live apart for a long time because they escape from the family. In order to pursue the so-called freedom, it is irresponsible to give up the family for nothing. Marriage and family are a prison for him. Only when he is tired of playing or doesn't want to play anymore may he go home.
Symptom 4: No sex life
Sex is an important condition for maintaining a bisexual relationship. When such an important condition is missing, your marriage has had a big problem. Either the other party has cheated on the mistress, or they are no longer attractive to each other. The appearance of a mistress is undoubtedly fatal to marriage, but without attraction, it is also easy to lead marriage into the abyss. The most effective response is to find out the causes of this phenomenon and make a decision after full consideration whether to save the marriage or let it go decisively.
Symptom 5: Play your own game
The premise that each plays his or her own game is that this marriage has reached the point of hopelessness. Both of them have chosen to break the pot, and the marriage has become a form. This kind of couple will not divorce easily, for the simple reason that they are comfortable and can easily get everything they want. But is this marriage really meaningful? Obviously, it's just a kind of self deception. It's better to leave as soon as possible to avoid hurting others and yourself in the future.
Symptom 6: Domestic violence
Domestic violence destroys everything. Although you have 10000 reasons, you should not use violence against your lover. There will be countless times of domestic violence once, and the road of violence has never been lost. Women often become victims, but they often lack the courage to fight and choose to swallow their pride. Of course, there are also many men who have suffered from this violation for a long time. It should be said that both men and women who still have hope in the face of such marriage are those who really love. But I'm sorry, you love the wrong person. To draw a boundary, we can adapt to most mistakes in three cases, and domestic violence can also be used. Give you the chance to correct your mistakes within three times, and suggest a decisive divorce after three times.
