Marriage is not the tomb of love. In life, the topic of love and marriage is always discussed by people. Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love; Others say that marriage is a continuation of love. But I think love is romantic, and marriage is realistic. In reality, no one dares to say that he really understands love or sees through marriage. As for whether marriage is the continuation of love or the tomb of love, it is just the experience of the parties concerned. Love can be a matter of one person. You can love each other unilaterally without asking for return. However, marriage is a matter of two people, which requires two people to work hard together.
Marriage is managed by two people, and more by women. Women who are good at business will naturally manage their marriage as sweet and harmonious as love, even more so, which will become a delay of love; For those who are not good at business, love will only gradually fade in marriage, and be replaced or disappeared by trivia in life, which, of course, has become the tomb of love as someone said. It is normal that two people with different knowledge and family background will have various contradictions when they walk into the marriage life together, but this is not that the more painful it is, the more hurt it is. At this time, understanding and trust will play its role, and only understanding and trust can replace complaint and criticism, love can be long, and marriage can remain unchanged for life.
Therefore, if you want marriage not to become the tomb of love, you must first take out the sincerity in your hands to exchange for the sincerity of the other party. If you want the other party to love you, you must constantly enrich yourself and make yourself a lovely person. Please believe that as long as each of us who enters into marriage has more understanding and trust, more appreciation and attraction in life, such marriage will not become the tomb of love!
The reason why marriage is a woman's grave:
In addition to love, there are many daily chores in marriage. Dealing with these things tends to make women tired and complain easily.
In marriage, women should not only take care of their families, but also take care of their children and their husbands, which often distracts them from their work and makes them unable to achieve career development.
In marriage, women's roles in the family and society are misplaced and often become the appendages of men, unable to realize their self-worth.
In marriage, husband and wife should respect, trust, understand and support each other, and face the challenges and difficulties in life together. Here are some suggestions:
1. Establish good communication: Communication is an important factor in maintaining a marriage relationship. Couples should maintain an open, honest, respectful and understanding attitude, and avoid blaming, attacking and being attacked.
2. Share housework: The husband and wife should share the housework, including cooking, washing, cleaning, and taking care of children, which will help reduce the burden of one party and enhance feelings.
3. Support each other: When facing challenges and difficulties, couples should support, understand and encourage each other to help each other overcome difficulties and grow together.
4. Keep independent: Although husband and wife should be interdependent, everyone should maintain their independence and living space. Husband and wife should respect each other's independence and not try to control or interfere in each other's life.
5. Be frank: Husband and wife should be frank with each other and avoid concealment and deception. If there are problems or contradictions, they should be communicated and solved in a timely manner to avoid accumulated misunderstandings and injuries.
6. Respect each other's personal space: Although couples should be interdependent, everyone has their own personal space and lifestyle. Husband and wife should respect each other's personal space and not try to control and interfere with each other's life.
7. Develop common interests: Husband and wife should jointly cultivate common interests, including reading, tourism, sports, music, etc., which will help enhance feelings and promote physical and mental health.
8. Learn to appreciate and appreciate: Couples should learn to appreciate and appreciate each other's strengths and contributions, and not only see each other's weaknesses and shortcomings.
In short, husband and wife should love, understand and support each other to grow and progress together. Only on this basis can marriage develop healthily and steadily.
