Women who need emotional value usually lack inner security and self-confidence. Such women tend to meet their emotional needs by obtaining external recognition and attention, so they are more vulnerable to external influence and criticism. They may pay too much attention to their appearance, social network likes, others' evaluation of themselves, and build their sense of value on these external factors. When these factors can not meet their needs, they will feel emotional anxiety and loss, and even anxiety, depression and other problems may occur.
What is the emotional value that girls want? Do you understand?
1. Give immediate positive feedback
The highest emotional value of daily life and work frequency occurs in the feedback. If there is contact and gossip, there is no real initiative and complete passivity. Sometimes, it seems that the other party actively shares trivial matters, but in fact, it is just her asking for the emotional value of your positive feedback. She sent you a selfie before going out. You can pass it by, but she would like you to make a comment with your heart. Of course, praise would be better. She shares something boring and trivial for you, which may be very trivial for you, but she prefers you to share your emotions with her rather than turn a deaf ear to it.
2. Actively express the necessity of girls for themselves and bravely express their love
Especially in the second half of a relationship, boys will feel that their feelings have entered a flat period, and their style and romance have also been cut by more than half. Old couples have nothing to be affectant about. However, in the world of many girls, she still needs passion and clear love when she is in love. If you really give girls a sense of belonging, girls tend to reduce their fantasies in the process of getting along, but they will be more reasonable. "A person's best appearance is also loved", which is especially obvious for girls. Therefore, if you dare to express your love, girls are not easy to think you are charming or unhappy. She may not look good on the surface, but she must be quietly happy behind her, and her emotional value will be full in a flash.
3. Understand tolerance, comfort emotions at the first time, and solve more than half of the problems after emotional treatment
Emotional value, to put it bluntly, is manipulating emotions. When a girl causes emotional fluctuations, what she needs most is that you can help her repair her emotions, rather than solve difficulties above emotions. Therefore, in case of a dispute between two people, or after a girl is in a bad mood or encounters setbacks, the first choice you should make is not to blame and persuade her, but to give her a warm embrace, cognition and relief, which can solve 90% of her current pain. After handling her pain, perhaps the way you think of is more rational and reasonable than you.
4. Physical contact is a relatively efficient emotional value
If you can't chat, use body language to express your feelings. You can't hide your liking for someone. Your eyes, body, taste and even the ambient temperature can stimulate the same emotional fluctuations of the other party. For lovers who love each other, sometimes nonsense is not worth a silent hug.
The emotional value of men to women includes the comfort of getting along with women, the attention and love of daily details to women, and the characteristics of disobedience to women.
1. Comfort with women
What is comfort with women? For example, if you are a funny and humorous man, you can also have a good business relationship with a woman. When you communicate with her, she is not painful. If a woman speaks freely and does what she says, you can also show tolerance and echo... If you are such a man, the woman will feel comfortable with you, and you will have the possibility to continue to get along with her.
In fact, if you want to catch up with a girl, as long as you can chat, you will have 80% chance to catch up with her. Because the core of love is "talk". Talk about life, heart and future with girls. As long as you can talk with her, you will have development opportunities.
2. The importance and love of daily details to women
Most women have a problem in their emotions. Their emotional needs are always unsatisfied, and many men don't pay attention to them.
The relationship that women expect is "you put me in your heart and think I'm a very important person for you. Even if you don't contact her, you should always think about her, and care about her in detail, so that she can feel considerate and love." Most men are not good enough in this regard, so the relationship with women often stops there.
For example, you don't have to wait for a woman to remind her that her birthday is coming, but you prepare a birthday gift for her in advance; You will remember the anniversary of your association; Every Valentine's Day will carefully prepare Valentine's Day gifts for women; During a woman's physiological period, you will prepare brown sugar water... These seemingly insignificant things are exactly the emotional values that women care about.
If you can't pay attention to and like women in daily details, the woman will feel that you haven't met her expectations as her boyfriend. Of course, she won't break up with you immediately, but will secretly reduce your score. When the score is reduced to a certain extent, it is time for her to say goodbye.
3. Disobedience to women
When you have become a qualified boyfriend in the eyes of women, you provide her with all-round services and care, and report all the time to make her feel safe, open to what she has to say, and so on... These seem to be no problem, but it is very easy to lose the passion that a charming man should have in the relationship.
A man who really makes a woman feel red must be a little "disobedient".
After experiencing the tests of women at all levels, the more she contacts you, the more she will find that you are not responsible for everything, but have an independent mind in everything. When facing conflicts, on the one hand, you can resolve them through personal ability, on the other hand, you can fight for the interests of both parties or protect her with a strong attitude. They are dishonest when dealing with each other internally, which can satisfy each other.
