The more boys like girls, the more unnatural they may be for the following reasons:
1. Like her, you will be nervous in front of her: The root cause of nervousness is his own lack of confidence in himself, which aggravates his nervousness in front of her. He is afraid that his words and deeds will make her uncomfortable, and that his words and deeds will make her unhappy, so he chooses to speak less and do less, and try to be "natural" in front of her.
2. Have a good opinion of her: When a boy has a good opinion of a girl, he will be very nervous and will become cautious when speaking. He is afraid that the girl will be unhappy when he says the wrong thing or does the wrong thing, so his behavior will be unnatural.
3. Slow heating type: Such people don't have special feelings towards each other at the beginning, but they will gradually be attracted to each other and become fond of each other after a long time, but this kind of goodwill is not enough for them to express, and they will choose to continue their secret love and wait for the right time.
4. Installation: They may keep a certain distance from everyone, especially those who are not interested in themselves or have no feelings about themselves, and they will behave unnaturally, which is a way they try to make a good impression on each other.
It should be noted that this unnatural performance is not necessarily due to boys' dislike of girls, but may be due to respect and concern for each other, or it may be due to nervousness and self-confidence. If a girl feels uncomfortable with the boy's performance, she'd better communicate with him directly to express your thoughts and feelings.
If the more boys like girls, the more unnatural they are, the following methods can be considered to alleviate this situation:
1. Don't get too excited and over behave: Keep calm and confident in front of the girl you like, and don't act too excited and unnatural. You can give each other a warm smile and slowly build mutual understanding and trust.
2. Get to know each other slowly: Understanding the other person's interests, habits and values can help you better understand her and communicate with her more naturally.
3. Smile and listen more: Smiling and listening are important elements in building a good relationship, which can make the other person feel your affinity and sincerity, and also allow you to communicate with her more naturally.
4. Don't be too strong: When communicating with the girl you like, don't be too strong and try not to control or change her. Be natural and authentic, and let the other person feel that you are a person who can be trusted and relied on.
5. Expand your advantages: Exploring your own advantages and highlights and constantly expanding your own characteristics and advantages can make you more confident and charming, and also allow you to communicate with her more naturally.
It should be noted that this unnatural performance is not necessarily due to boys' dislike of girls, but may be due to respect and concern for each other, or it may be due to nervousness and self-confidence. If a girl feels uncomfortable with the boy's performance, she'd better communicate with him directly to express your thoughts and feelings.
