The price will not drop if the woman goes to the man's house first. Modern wedding etiquette emphasizes respect and equality, and should not emphasize that one party's status is higher than the other. Meeting parents is a necessary process for marriage. There is no question of who comes first, as long as the time is right. It is also a kind of respect for the woman to meet the man's parents first, and it can also know the boyfriend's attitude at home in advance, which will help the emotional development in the future.
When the woman goes to the man's house to bring gifts, she can choose tobacco, wine, specialty, fruit, tea, health products, cigarettes, etc., which can be determined according to local customs and her own economic situation. If you don't know what gift to bring, you can refer to the following options:
Specialty: If the man's home is out of town, he can bring some local specialties, such as tea, longans, walnuts, honey, wolfberry, etc. These specialties can show the characteristics and culture of his hometown.
Fruit: Fruit is a good gift. You can choose seasonal fruits, such as apples, oranges, bananas, persimmons, etc. These fruits are not only fresh, but also rich in vitamins and nutrients.
Tea: If the man's family has the habit of drinking tea, he can bring some high-quality tea, such as Pu'er tea, Tieguanyin tea, Longjing tea, etc. These tea can not only improve the grade of the gift, but also let the recipient taste different cultures and tastes.
Health care products: If the husband's family has elders who need to take care of their bodies, they can take some health care products, such as bird's nest, glossy ganoderma, cordyceps sinensis, etc. These health care products can not only keep the elders healthy, but also let them feel your filial piety.
In general, the choice of gifts should be based on the local customs and their own economic situation, while also paying attention to the practicality and thoughtfulness of gifts.