I believe that every listener friend, whether you are a worker, a businessman or an observer, will encounter this situation. When we talk about something or a business with others, or ask others to do something, we often talk seriously in very formal occasions, such as offices and meeting rooms, and the probability of success is not very high, The whole environment has changed, the atmosphere has also changed, and it is easy to talk about things. You may have talked about things that were rejected before. This is what we often call good work at the table.
So why do things that can't be settled in the office get settled in the dinner party? There are several reasons:
First, the environment has changed, causing changes in identity and status.
In the office, every word said by the other side means that the company is the image of the enterprise and must behave properly, even with its own interests. Even for the sake of the company's interests, there is no room for compromise. However, when it comes to dinner, it is different. The person may still be the same person, but apart from the enterprise environment, more people represent individuals. A lot of people put down their previous figure and were relatively comfortable. The topic of conversation. It's easy. It's easy to make the atmosphere more active, and in such an environment, the chances of success in talking about things are higher.
The second kind: the wine cup knows people.
Especially when strangers meet for the first time, they don't know each other very well. In a formal occasion like a desk, it can only be business. But in a dinner party, the quality and morality of a person can be truly reflected through your words and my words. Once recognized, everything else will be easy to do.
The third kind: take someone's hand short, eat someone's mouth soft.
When you eat someone else's food at a dinner party, you owe them a lot of gratitude. You must be very sorry and will definitely find ways to repay them. Even if there is some damage to some interests, it doesn't matter. After all, people have to spend real money on hospitality. Therefore, things that have not been completed before are so easily completed at the dinner party.
Those who understand these three reasons are often recognized. It is not that they have no money to spend, but that they can establish more stable relationships through meals, which can not only achieve things that are difficult to achieve at ordinary times, but also make their own life path more helpful. But here I want to emphasize that there is no perfect meal in this world. The meal is perfect because it is designed, so we want to invite guests to dinner. You must know how to design your own meals, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort.
