Sometimes our colleagues ask us for a little help when we encounter such a thing, but after receiving it, they find that it is not a little help at all, and it takes a long time and energy to solve a very troublesome problem. So some people are not sure enough about asking others for help, because it's not your decision to be busy, but the helper's decision. So in order to make others more willing to help us, we should learn to avoid the pit, and also grasp the following five principles.
Before talking about principles, we still need to talk about this phenomenon. Some people, in order to reduce the other party's sense of acceptance, will talk about busyness very little, which seems to be a little busy, but when the other party receives it, it will be a big trouble, he will feel cheated, and he will feel that he is not valued. Can he trust you again? Will he accept you if you ask him for help later? So people who deliberately talk about busyness in such a small way, but who are not like that at all, are very unpopular socially. What if it's difficult to ask for help? How on earth can we tell others to help you in the future?
