Your parents want to borrow money from you? Of course, give as much as you have!
Your parents brought you up. You are much older than before. They are short of money and should not wait for them to speak. If they ask for you, you are already unfilial.
Of course, if the parents have more than one child, because they are eccentric, they ask you to borrow money to help them.
Filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and we should be filial to our parents both in the past and now.
No matter how they treat you, they should be filial.
A doctor from Peking University reported on the Internet disappeared because of his parents' blood sucking. A girl from Northeast China drained her parents to study abroad and disappeared in their parents' life. It's really worse than brutes!
Therefore, parents must borrow money from you!
There are several ways to politely refuse family members to borrow money
1. It can be said that I'm really sorry and would like to help you, but I'm also waiting to use the money. I don't have any extra money now, or I will bring it to you right away after a period of time.
2. You can argue with your partner because of the money in front of your family, so you won't borrow money from you again.
3. Leave a small amount of money in your account balance, then let your family have a look, and then say, "I have nothing left. If you want it, I will lend it to you.".
4. It can be said that the Chinese New Year is coming, there are many places to spend money, and I am not rich. I really can't help. I hope my family will understand.
5. You can ask a friend to help you make a chat conversation about borrowing money, and then send it to your family, saying that you also owe money to others, and have not yet paid it back. You really have no ability to lend it again.
6. It can be said that I have not paid my salary for two months, and I really have no money to lend it.
7. It can be said that I'm very sorry. I don't have much money now. You can think of another way. (At the same time, you can recommend some family members to borrow money from them.)
8. It can be said that because of the epidemic, I have been at home for a long time, and now it is very difficult. Children have to spend a lot of money to go to school, so I can't help them.
There are several ways to politely refuse your family to borrow money. Be brave, don't be too tangled, just find an excuse. After all, you are a family member, understand you, have concerns, but don't be embarrassed. You can borrow your own money if you want to, and don't borrow if you don't want to.
