The correct solution to a quarrel with a girlfriend is to apologize on your own initiative. After all, when a girlfriend is angry, she doesn't want to take care of herself, but she usually wants to come to me as soon as possible. This is the psychological idea of girls. Although they are very angry, they are really very delicate. They are also young girls, so, We must take the initiative to apologize, so that we can have the opportunity to ease.
The right way to deal with a quarrel with your girlfriend
1. Sorry, I made a mistake.
In fact, the reason why a girl loses her temper to you after a quarrel is that some of your behaviors make her feel that you are not tolerant enough of her. She just wants you to let her fight only once, but the mood of fighting is always so difficult to control, and when you get angry, you can't care about anything else. So after that, calm down, go and say sorry to her, and tell her that you are wrong. You apologize to her for some harm you have done to her. I believe she will forgive you.
2. I really love you.
Sometimes girls always feel that you don't love her enough, so they will always find trouble from time to time to fight with you and find out how important you are to you. Don't think she's making trouble for no reason, it's just a concern for you. So after your quarrel, you may as well tell her frankly that you love her and dispel her doubts.
3. I swear I will never do this again.
Girls care most about the sense of security. After an argument, they are the most insecure and vulnerable. If you can't give her some comfort at this time, but let it be, then the distance between you will be farther and farther. In fact, the girl's most concern is the oath. Your oath, to some extent, will make the girl feel the sense of security you have brought to her, so that she can trust you enough. But if the vow turns into a lie, then your reputation on girls will be low. Therefore, this sentence should be used sparingly and carefully.
4. Are you tired of fighting just now? Come and have a drink.
A sense of humor is often the best way to break the bottleneck. Once this sentence is uttered, she will laugh and scold you, or even beat you. This is the beginning of breaking the deadlock. If one can make good use of humor, he will not have so many troubles. Of course, you don't have to drink water. You can also say that the quarrel just now may be too tiring. You may be hungry. Let me go to cook.
5. Dear, don't forget the villain.
First give her a kind name, let her heart warm, sweet and greasy. And use language that can make her laugh to get her forgiveness. In fact, girls like this best. They like to listen to sweet talk. They hope their men can sense their unhappiness and find ways to solve it happily. Don't ask me how I know. Xiao Bian also likes this suit.
6. Don't be angry. I gave you your favorite.
Well, talking about money is tacky. But sometimes money can really solve any difficulty. Of course, it doesn't mean that you know you can't do anything, but you still buy her her favorite and most expensive bag. That means you are stupid. Here, you can exchange your favorite food for many things. Her favorite food, the pet she once wanted to keep but you wouldn't let her keep.
The quarrel between boyfriend and girlfriend can't be more normal. Some people are quarreling, and their feelings gradually disappear. Finally, they can only break up sadly. While some couples also quarrel, but the way to deal with the quarrel is very good, noisy also came. If you don't want to break up because the quarrel affects your feelings, let's see how the boyfriend and girlfriend handle the quarrel. The relationship can continue.
1、 Strangle the quarrel in the cradle
Some couples can not quarrel for a long time because they can strangle the quarrel in the cradle. The way to nip the quarrel in the bud is not to be controlled by emotions, and both parties should not argue with each other for a while. For example, when you notice that your girlfriend is angry, you should not reason with her and then talk to her. Even if she is unreasonable, there is no way to communicate when people are impulsive. At the same time, speaking at this time is most likely to hurt feelings. First pacify your emotions, even if you admit a mistake and accept a soft one, let your girlfriend's emotions ease. After the atmosphere eases and the emotions of both parties calm down, continue to solve the problem with reason. The problem must be solved, don't hang on. It's dangerous to leave too much to focus on outbreak. It's better to deal with every time you encounter it. Appropriate coquetry and cuteness, both men and women The effect is outstanding.
2、 Calm up after a quarrel
In fact, the only purpose for your girlfriend to quarrel with you in love is to vent her emotions. After venting, they dissipated. They did not intend to make any argument about the right or wrong or the truth of the event itself. This doesn't mean that they are unreasonable. If they should understand, they will understand. If they don't want to understand, what can you do. Therefore, it is not a matter of communication or hands-free, and their own purposes are different. Therefore, after the quarrel, the boys should go to coax, and the problem will be solved when the girlfriend has calmed down. Unless it is a major issue of right or wrong, or a problem that must be faced again, don't follow others to communicate.
3、 Understand each other's needs
In fact, a very important reason for the quarrel between a boyfriend and a girlfriend is that the needs of one or both parties have not been met. If neither of them realizes this, they will argue all the time. So I also think we should communicate well and try to express clearly what we need. Or you should take the initiative to understand what the other party's needs are, and try to guess without her telling you. As long as what she wants is satisfied, the quarrel will end and the relationship between the two people will be as good as ever.
4、 Make sense
If the boyfriend and girlfriend are both reasonable, then after the quarrel, they should separate for a while, calm down, and then together talk about the situation and the grievances of both sides. All of us are rational people and want to be together. It is not true that there is a problem in our character. If we make it clear, we can. What I fear most is that after a long fight, I finally made the first thing clear, and one side began to say something like, "Even if it was my fault at first, your attitude was bad later". If
