The recovery method of disappointed breakup: adjust the mentality to face calmly, give both parties a period of calm, and change the wrong way of love in the past.
1、 Adjust your mind and face calmly
You need to adjust your mind if you want to recover your boyfriend who insisted on breaking up. If your mind is not good enough when you recover, you will find it difficult to persist, because no matter what you do at this time, you will be rejected by the other party, so you must have an optimistic mind if you want to recover your boyfriend.
At the same time, you also need to calmly face the fact that you have broken up, do a good job of freezing, and don't let the other party realize your high demand. The more calm you are after a breakup, the more you will make your boyfriend doubt whether his decision to leave you is right, and then make him have a little curiosity about you and want to know how you are going after the breakup.
2、 Give both parties a period of calm
To recover a disappointed lover, you should first make efforts to balance your mind, give yourself a period of time to regain the ability to think rationally and deal with emotions, reflect on how to correct your shortcomings, what other shortcomings you have in past relationships, and also give your disappointed partner a period of time, Let him dilute the negative impact on you and slowly recall your good.
Of course, the cooling off period does not mean that you are completely disconnected. You can still contact him, but it should not be so frequent, let alone pretend to be a lover, and expose your sense of needs too much. Just let him know that you have really realized how much your shortcomings hurt him at this moment, and resolve to change yourself. You should still care about him.
3、 Change the wrong way of love in the past
Being alone with you doesn't mean being alone with you for no reason. You must have the advantage of attracting each other at the beginning. However, as time goes by, your shortcomings continue to be exposed, so your love value will also be reduced to zero, until the patience of the other person for you is gradually worn away.
Therefore, if you want the other person to fall in love with you again, you must change some of the wrong ways of falling in love with her.
For example, the other party doesn't like you always sticking to him, but you always keep calling.
The other side doesn't like you, but you always doubt the other side.
The other person doesn't like you to be humble to her everywhere, and hopes to run this relationship well together. Everyone has mistakes that can be corrected, but you are afraid that because the other person is angry, you know that the other person has mistakes, but you don't point out the other person's mistakes and spoil her.
How to recover the cumulative disappointment breakup
1. Admit a mistake
If you let your lover down, she will naturally break up with you. At this moment, you must go to her side, admit your fault first, and apologize to her. This is the first step for you to save her. This is a must. Only when you sincerely repent, she will forgive your fault.
If you think you are not wrong, then you will not be forgiven or even break up directly in her heart, so she will forgive you only when she comes to her side to apologize, which is also an important point of a person's behavior.
2. Express your sincerity
If your lover breaks up with you because of disappointment, at this time you should find ways to recover her, but you should let her know how much you care about her in your heart, no matter how wrong you are to hurt her, but you should also let her know that without her existence, your life is meaningless.
At this time, as long as you go to her side and say to your heart that you still care about her, and also say some sweet words, these must be expressed, and you will be sincere to express your true feelings.
3. Persist in doing things that care for her
If you hurt your lover, let her down, and want to recover her after breaking up with you, you must not let go easily. The main mistake is that you committed it yourself, and you must make up for it. At this time, you must first go to her side, care for her and love her, In these behaviors, you must use your sincerity and true feelings to melt a disappointed heart, let her move for you, move for you, and melt her soul with perseverance
Do her things directly as your own. In life, you should care for her meticulously and pay for her with no regrets. Maybe she will say you scold you mercilessly. At this time, you must be thick skinned and stick to it until the end, so that you can win her heart again.
