What if the child lies? Can you blame, beat and scold? No matter what to do with accusation, beating or scolding? If you continue to beat and scold, it will form a vicious circle slowly, until he rebels in the future, and you will end up worse and worse. So parents should master the correct method of educating their children. So how to educate children to lie? How to educate lying children who are dishonest? Next, send parents three steps to educate promising children.
Step 1: Understand emotions
In fact, he didn't mean to make many mistakes. After he made them, he found that he had made mistakes. But at that time, he was also nervous. He was afraid that his parents would hit him and his teacher would criticize him. So at this time, he might lie to protect himself and achieve psychological self-protection. In this case, we should not beat and scold at the first step, because at that time, he may break the protective shield built for fear. In the future, he will choose to escape, because if he makes a mistake, he will inevitably face the storm. In this case, just continue to escape. So in such a situation, as a parent or a teacher, we should first understand his emotions. For example, when a child breaks something, he lies and says, "I didn't fall. Who fell then?" We don't need to blame him first. We need to understand his emotions first, "Are you afraid when something breaks?" Understand his emotions, and then slowly let him understand that what he did is wrong. So let him calm down first, let him dare to face you, and when he dare to tell you the truth, you can educate him again to get closer to his heart.
Step 2: solve the problem
For example, if something is broken, what should we do next? You have to ask him, no matter what the reason, he may be shirking the responsibility, "What should we do next? Let's clean it up together." We solve the mistakes we are making and guide the children. We can't stop at the problem, we can't throw it away, we should be brave to face the problem and solve the problem.
Step 3: Demonstration scheme
The demonstration plan is that you take your child to solve problems together, and also tell him what to do next time such problems occur. Sometimes you can even show him another thing. Why is it broken? Because your things are placed too disorderly, they are easy to fall off, and they are fragile and fragile. In the future, they should be placed neatly and shown to him. So you can show him something. He can accept this demonstration scheme through positive education, and he can at least prevent problems before they happen.
The above are the three steps of how to teach children to lie. Sometimes children lie not because they don't want to admit their mistakes, but because their parents' beating and scolding make their children afraid, and gradually alienate them from their parents. So parents' friends should master the correct way of educating their children when educating them, so that they can approach their hearts and educate promising children.
