How can we educate children to make them more acceptable when they make mistakes? Some parents criticize their children for not being distracted because they have violated the taboo of criticizing their children, resulting in their children's rebellion, disobedience, and even a negative impact on their children's psychology. So how to educate children when they make mistakes, and what is the correct way to deal with them? Here are three tips for parents.
First move: Identity guidance method
We don't want to throw all the mistakes and accusations on the children at once. In this case, the children are unwilling to open their mouths and tell you the ins and outs. So even if the child makes a mistake, he should first express his understanding of the child, and then further guide him to say more, which is also conducive to the child's understanding of the problem, so as to solve the problem. For example, "I believe you do this for a certain reason. You may not have the opportunity to explain when you are always criticizing you. Can you tell your mother why you do this? I believe you are an honest child, and I believe you are willing to tell your mother why you do this. I believe you are not an ignorant child." Such recognition guidance, Children are more willing to tell the ins and outs of things. When the child tells the truth, we agree with the child's motivation at that time, but do not agree with the child's approach, and then guide the correct approach.
The second way: listening to opinions
The third move: story guiding method
The so-called story guidance method is that you give him a case, tell him a prediction, tell him a story, and let him receive some education through the story. This is why we should tell children more prophecy stories when they are young, because they can understand what they should do through stories, and pass on some ideas and values. They can understand, so we should be good at guiding children to do correctly through some classic characters, or some stories and fables that he admires.
I hope the above three strategies can help you better educate your children, make them more likely to accept your criticism, and cultivate their correct values and grow up healthily and happily.
