I can't forget what my predecessor did
Life is a wonderful journey. During the journey, you will meet all kinds of people. Some of them become your teammates and move forward with you. Some of them become your scenery. In a hurry, they become a person's journey. Maybe a person is on a lonely journey, but no one knows what kind of scenery awaits you in the front. On off off off off off off off off off off off off off off off off is life, I can't forget it when I divide it. I always think about it inexplicably. I don't want to give up, or I don't want to let go. I'm depressed. What should I do?
1. Don't tangle:
It's normal that they always think of their predecessors inadvertently. After all, two people have had a good time. Whatever the reason for breaking up, they become predecessors. This memory is indelible, unforgettable, and impossible to forget. It's self deception to say that they can forget, and they are unwilling to mention it. Don't tangle with this problem, It affects my current life state and makes me upset.
2. Try to recover:
I can't forget my predecessor. I always can't help but flash the image of my predecessor in my mind. Sometimes, I even cry, laugh, and feel silly. I can't eat well or sleep. I still have too deep feelings and nostalgia for my predecessor,
The breakup between the two people is only due to their own willfulness, or their carelessness and impulsiveness. There is not much hatred and complaint, nor is it a principled problem of infidelity and betrayal. Never forget, you might as well try to retrieve this love.
3. Remembering the beauty:
If you can't forget your predecessor and always think of him inexplicably, then don't force yourself to forget. It's impossible to forget the predecessor. If you can't forget, don't forget. It's better to let go, let go, forget the unhappy past, remember more good things, and make yourself feel better, optimistic and cheerful, Remember a person's good, forget a person's bad, happy is the most important.
4. Be strong:
A person should be brave to face the reality. No matter how big a failure or setback he encounters, he should be optimistic and strong to face, accept, and work hard to change himself and the status quo. He should constantly encourage himself, remind himself to get out of the relationship he once had, and stop indulging in it, so that he can lose his soul and be decadent all day long. He should greet the new sun with a smile, Let your life become more sunny and colorful.
5. Enrich yourself:
If you don't want to think about someone inexplicably, you can enrich your life, enrich yourself, and avoid falling into a monotonous and boring lifestyle. In addition to going to work, you will go home alone. When you get home, you will be alone,
It's better to cultivate your hobbies, participate in some activities, or work part-time to keep yourself busy. You can also travel alone, let your mood fly, embrace nature, and feel the beauty and charm of nature, so that you won't be paranoid.
6. Make new friends:
If you don't want to think of someone again, want to be dusty, and don't want to mention it again, you need to meet new people. When the new person enters your heart and occupies the position of the former, there is another person in your heart, which is no longer empty. It is the new friend that worries you, but you should know that after you sort out your mood, There is no emotional connection with the former, and you want to meet and accept new friends of the opposite sex instead of taking the other person as a substitute for your own soul, otherwise it is unfair to others.
7. Delivery time:
Time is ruthless, which can make one person dilute everything. The two lovers just separated, and it is hard to forget that there is still a trace of regret or hatred between them. It is normal that after a long time, a long distance, a light, and a habit, they will not think about it again. Time and space will dilute the feelings of two people, and will also let themselves grow up slowly, Become mature.
8. Let go:
I can't forget my predecessor. I always can't help remembering that there is something in my heart that I can't put down. It's love and hate. I tell myself that they have nothing to do with myself. If it's love, I wish him a better life. If it's hate, I put it down,
Don't punish yourself with others' mistakes, but still bless the other party. After all, love once existed. Hate means love. Learn to work hard to let go, let go, let go, and meet your own love. Don't live in the shadow of the past. Let the clouds of the past pass, and make your sky clear.
People will be like this, and only when they lose can they appreciate it. Both men and women are the same. If you think he still likes you, and you can't forget him, you two should cherish this relationship. Sometimes feelings depend on two people to cherish each other. If he just thinks that his current girlfriend is not good, and in turn thinks that he is good, I think you should not want such a person. If you meet a person who is better than you in the future, he will definitely throw you off again. It's better not to start now. Sometimes it's better to be friends than lovers.
If he is your first love, it is hard to forget. Generally, first love is hard to forget. Moreover, girls have a soft heart. They usually take their feelings seriously, so it is not easy to give up. Time can change everything. If you two really love each other, then give each other a chance. Otherwise, I will regret it; If you think he doesn't love you, you should forget him quickly. You can still be friends, but not lovers.
No matter how excellent or good someone is, they are the ones who broke up with you. And his excellence will be appreciated by another girl. And you will be the one out. No matter how you can't put it down, no matter how much you love. After all, you broke up. The more you linger, the more sad you will be. Until you are really hurt, you will not dare to linger. Give up and let go.
So it's better to become better than to miss your ex boyfriend's excellence. When you are excellent, do you still worry about finding excellent people? Even better than him.
But you can't forget it, sad, or nostalgia. Then you are really hopeless. You can only watch his excellence and see him throw himself into the arms of others. And then you will be really sad.
So let him pass him in the past. He is just a passer-by in your life when he is excellent. If you are not good, or if the person you are looking for in the future is not as good as him, it is the person who will accompany you. The person who accompanies you is the best, isn't he? What's more, what you're looking for isn't necessarily worse than him, is it?
If you think he is excellent, then try to become better than him. In this way, you will attract some excellent people to come to you. So don't change your mind. You are the person who wants to live in the present, and look forward to the future, believe. Work hard now, and the future will be beautiful. If you don't work hard now, the future will be bad.
That's it. From now on, let's become an excellent person. Let your ex boyfriend regret missing such an excellent you. Don't regret yourself here. People don't even look at you. Until you let everyone look up, it is the biggest blow to those who hurt you.
In fact, in real life, we may all encounter such things. When a relationship is over, suddenly one day we will find that we can never forget our ex, and at this time we will be particularly anxious and irritable, even affecting our normal work and study. If you have broken up for three months and still can't forget your predecessor, you need to take a careful look at your own state.
First, ask yourself if there is still love.
If you still feel unable to forget your ex after three months of separation, ask yourself if you still have true love for your ex lover. In fact, most of the time, only when two people are separated can we truly feel whether the feelings between them are true, and only when they are separated can we soberly realize the position of each other in each other's hearts.
Secondly, examine the possibility of love.
If you are sober enough in these three months to feel that you can't forget your predecessor, you should carefully examine the relationship between two people to see if there is any possibility of their reunion. If you feel that you still have love for each other and can't go on without each other, you should pick up this relationship again. But if you feel that your unforgettability is temporary, you should be cautious.
Thirdly, pursue love bravely and create a new life.
If you think clearly and want to get back together, take the initiative to pursue. If you don't have the courage to pursue love bravely, you are doomed to regret for a lifetime. If you feel that even if you can't forget your predecessor, there is no possibility for the two to get back together, then try to give up and start a new life. You should always believe that there will be someone who treats you as a treasure in this world.
However, I think that if you break up, you should make good use of the empty window period to improve yourself. When you become excellent, there will be an excellent person like you who can see your flash. Although love is necessary, love is not your whole life. Love yourself and improve yourself.
