Good friends should not work together, because although they are good friends, if they stay together every day, there will be all kinds of friction in life. When small friction accumulates, there will be big conflicts, which will affect the relationship and feelings between friends at this time. So I think friends should still have a sense of distance.
It's certainly good to work with good friends. They can help and encourage each other. I feel that I am not fighting alone. Be confident to challenge more difficult tasks. As for the disagreement you said, it is normal to express your opinions and try to persuade the other party, but it will not cause estrangement and complaints, nor affect your friendship. The premise is to communicate more and solve problems face to face.
And in reality, many companies only forbid lovers to work in the same company, but they do not prohibit good friends. This shows that it has no impact on work.
When you become a colleague with your own friends, your relationship will become worse. There are three reasons that make you heartfelt:
1. Scramble for interests
In the same company, the most common thing is to compete for interests.
Who doesn't want to perform better, say they don't want to do core business, and who doesn't want to get better treatment.
In order to get along better, you need to show your ambition. Even if it is fair competition, there will be conflicts.
2. Defect amplification
We will find many shortcomings of each other in our work and life if we live together for a long time.
Small defects that you didn't find before will be constantly magnified to make you bored.
For example, your friend is a very lazy person, and it was perfectly possible for you to wait for her before.
But in our work, we need to pay attention to efficiency. We can't wait and do nothing yet.
At this time, if your friend works slowly with you in the process of cooperation, you will be disgusted.
3. Differences of opinion
Everyone is an independent individual and naturally has independent thoughts.
When there is disagreement on an issue, you may have a big quarrel.
Long term quarrels can affect your feelings, even if it's business.
Xiao Wang used to have a very good relationship with the leaders. They were brothers, but they had great differences in management methods and often quarreled. Finally, Xiao Wang resigned.
He said that he was too tired from quarreling and would leave before the friendship broke up.
Therefore, no matter how good the relationship between friends is, don't become colleagues.
Otherwise, you will either lose your job or lose your friends.
