If you want your boyfriend to believe you, you have to do something to make him believe you. First of all, you must tell the truth. No matter what you do or who you are with, do not hide or refuse to tell your boyfriend, so that he thinks you are not hiding something from him. Secondly, try to take your boyfriend out with you. If you have something to discuss with him, ask for his opinion. Let him have confidence, and he will trust you gradually.
If you want your boyfriend to remove the psychological shadow and let him trust you again, you need to make some changes in words and deeds so that he can know you again. This is an opportunity for him and for himself. When you become better, your boyfriend will look at you with eyes. You need to care and understand your boyfriend more in life, Let him trust you again.
In fact, once people lose trust, it is still very difficult to re-establish a sense of trust, but it does not mean impossible. As long as you do well enough, the other party will see your efforts, trust your sincerity, and re-establish trust in you.
1、 Express your apology
If your words and deeds hurt your boyfriend and left him a psychological shadow, first of all, you should express your apology, sincerely apologize to him, help him out of the psychological shadow, let him face life again, face you, let him feel your sincerity, and believe that you can get rid of the past mistakes, he may be because of the good feelings of the past two people, And choose to trust you again.
2、 Show one's sincerity
If you want to eliminate the psychological shadow of your boyfriend, you need to show your sincerity. The reason why your boyfriend has psychological shadow must be that you hurt him once. If you want to regain his trust, you need to change it sincerely, care about and understand him sincerely, stop cheating him, let him down, let him see your sincerity and efforts, I will try to forgive you and trust you.
3、 Dispel his doubts
The reason why your boyfriend has psychological shadow is that he once trusted you very much, but you destroyed this trust. If you want him to trust you again, you need to dispel all his doubts and remove the shadow in his heart. The two people talk from an equal perspective and talk openly and honestly, so that they can further understand each other, Let him feel your sincerity and efforts, and he will choose to trust you again, so that he can get out of the psychological shadow as soon as possible.
In fact, trust between lovers is a very important thing. Many people say that trust is like a piece of white paper. Even if it is smoothed, wrinkles cannot be eliminated. Especially between lovers, if they have experienced betrayal and deception, it is difficult for them to return to the starting point. If a man has been betrayed, his heart will be hurt and insulted, Naturally, there will be no sense of security.
If you want your boyfriend to trust you again, you must first reflect on the wrong things you have done. No matter whether your boyfriend can forgive you in the end, you should sincerely apologize to him. The mistakes you have made and the damage you have caused to your boyfriend are not easy to recover. You should be prepared.
Then you should clean up all the heterosexual friends around you, especially those who have ever had an affair with you. In the process of getting along with your boyfriend, you should take the initiative to keep a distance from your heterosexual friends, not do things that hurt or betray your boyfriend, and take the initiative to introduce your boyfriend in front of your heterosexual friends, And always show your dependence and care for your boyfriend. Let your boyfriend realize that he is the only one in your heart now.
When you get along with your boyfriend, you should also pay special attention to giving your boyfriend a sense of security. No matter where you go or who you meet, you should greet your boyfriend in advance, explain the situation, clarify when you will come back, and often take the initiative to contact your boyfriend, so that he cannot find you. And often let the boyfriend have a feeling of being cared about, let him believe that you have completely corrected.
In addition, if you want to give your boyfriend a sense of security, you should also pay special attention to the sense of ritual in life, take him to recall the happy time you two used to be together, prepare gifts for him on festivals and anniversaries, and let him know your importance in his heart. Over time, the trust between you may be rebuilt, but once the trust is destroyed, It is very difficult to re-establish. You must be fully prepared.
