It is appropriate to ask people to handle affairs. Many friends in our life do not master skills in asking people to handle affairs. In the end, they have paid a lot and still don't let people appreciate them. So what is the proper way to ask people to handle affairs? Here are three techniques.
1、 Sufficient foreshadowing in the early stage
The most taboo thing to ask for help is to be straightforward, especially when you are not so familiar with the other party, and the relationship is not in place, you start to ask for help, or even make the other party feel overly demanding, which will alienate the other party from you. So if we want to ask someone to do something, we must evaluate our familiarity and trust with him. In order to make more people become familiar and trusted relationships, we should pay attention to some nourishing strategies.
Let's not force others to feel that they once owed you. It's like you came here today to ask for it. We still come here to discuss with him. If we can help him, we will help him. If we can't help you, we will never blame him. If you find another way, it will be easier for the other party to get involved in helping you. Because you never put pressure on others, but make others more willing to help you. Don't give a very valuable gift in advance to make the other person feel pressured and feel that you are separated from him. It seems that he is trying to help you. So at the beginning, we can do little favors, even without giving them away. Don't use material things to separate the psychological distance between you and increase the psychological pressure of the other party. You can use the above skills to communicate with the other party when asking for help. I believe that the other party will be more willing to help you without wasting money.
2、 Find the right time and keep a low attitude 3、 Acquaintances help give gifts afterwards
