There are the following solutions to conflicts with good friends:
First, calm down. When quarreling, people are not so rational. Sometimes the words they say hurt people very much. After the words that hurt people are said, whether they are reconciled or not, there will eventually be some small bumps between the two people, and the relationship will not be as good as before. When quarreling with a good friend, let yourself calm down quickly, close your mouth and stop quarreling, so that a good friend will not be able to quarrel, so that the problem of quarreling can be solved.
It is important to analyze. Analyze the reasons for the quarrel. Many times, the reason for the quarrel between two people is just because of some small things. What should be done to lead to the quarrel between two people? Is there any misunderstanding about this matter? Only by solving the problem from the source can we really make mutual understanding happy and get back together.
Take the initiative to apologize. No matter whether it's your own fault or not, you should take the initiative to apologize. It's not bad to admit your mistake first between good friends, and it's not difficult to apologize. There's no need to haggle over every ounce between two people.
Mutual inclusion. The most important thing for people to get along with each other is to forgive each other. Try to think about the quarrel from the other's point of view, understand each other's feelings, understand each other's ideas, and you will find that you will know each other better.
How to make up after breaking up with friends
1. When encountering language conflict during conversation, such as entering the multi way scramble, don't be silent or smile awkwardly, because when you do this, the other person will think you don't give him face or think you are arrogant. We can use our eyes to express the right to speak, which can increase the other party's good opinion of you, and also ease the awkward atmosphere.
2. When a misunderstanding occurs between friends and there is a trend of physical conflict, do not yell. When you are sure that the other person does not reject your physical behavior, you can try to give him a hug and add some verbal comfort appropriately.
3. Even if you are a friend, you should apologize if you are wrong. Some people think that the relationship between the two people is very good, and there is no need to apologize if you are wrong. This idea is wrong, even if he is your friend, when you hurt your friend for your own reasons. Maybe because of his friend's face, he won't say anything, but we must take the initiative to apologize.
Let our friends know that we have realized our mistakes, and that we also feel guilty. The purpose of doing so is to dissolve the estrangement between friends and help them to rebuild their friendship.
4. Between friends, we should be careful in everything we do. Sometimes we are very polite to strangers and careful in everything we do. When we are with friends, we are very casual, and often don't pay much attention to their feelings. We will think that everyone is friends anyway, so there is no need to be so polite. Even how to play, friends will not be angry.
5. It is very important not to interfere in a friend's private life, because everyone has his own secret, even his best friend is unwilling to tell it. But many people like to inquire about their friends' privacy and interfere with their friends' private lives, which will only cause their friends' aversion.
When friends quarrel, they can settle the dispute in the following ways:
1. Calm down and analyze the cause of the quarrel
There is a saying: "One slap can't make a sound." The same is true of a quarrel. If one party constantly blames, but the other party is too lazy to answer, it will be difficult to generate greater friction.
When many people quarrel, we will inevitably say something harmful to each other. At this time, we should calm down and recall our words and deeds during the quarrel. If you want to reconcile, you must find out the reason, and then analyze the process and results of the matter clearly. If it is your own mistake, you must admit it and apologize to it. Remember not to shirk responsibility at will. That will only intensify conflicts and have the opposite effect.
2. Explain the reason for the quarrel, and be good at actively admitting mistakes
The most important thing between people is to talk, which can not only effectively avoid misunderstandings, but also help to increase the distance between each other. Since we regard each other as our friends, if we want to reconcile, we should take the initiative to find friends to explain why. Don't be afraid that the other party will ignore you. Since you are friends, you will not listen to the explanation. If you really have more responsibility after reflection, you should take the initiative to apologize, show your kindness and seek reconciliation.
3. Be good at observing and looking for a good time to make peace
If both parties are still angry and not rational enough, I suggest not to meet first, so as to avoid the irreversible situation caused by bad mood control. We can make a phone call or send a greeting message to observe each other's emotions, and then find the opportunity to seek reconciliation.
We can ask our friends about their trends first. For example, ask your friend what he is doing and whether he has time to calm down and talk about it. If we have a good attitude, he will understand his mind as a friend. So we can explain to our friends some of our extreme behaviors during the quarrel, and make an oral apology to our friends. At this time, friends will also reflect on themselves, so reconciliation has been further improved.
4. Step back and tolerate appropriately
In many cases, friends also need to be tolerant of each other. If they are too fussy, it will not benefit their personal image and will have a certain impact on their feelings. It is suggested that when encountering such events, we should try to avoid confrontation with them. If necessary, we can use some methods to keep ourselves away from the place where the incident happened. For example, walking outdoors and listening to music can achieve the effect of stepping back.
5. Seek help from mutual friends
When two people disagree, there is no need to be at daggers drawn. At this time, it is an important way to have an intermediary to mediate and help make decisions. We can call our mutual friends to explain the cause and effect, and let them mediate for you to resolve the conflict. This way can also well avoid a second conflict between two people.
These are my suggestions and opinions. I hope that friends should understand each other, learn tolerance, and stand the test to make the friendship more stable.
