Good interpersonal relationship has the following important functions: it can enable us to obtain valuable information, and can improve our efforts to achieve things.
1. It enables us to obtain valuable information:
Good interpersonal relationships can let us know more information than others, mainly some non-public information. This is actually a question of "what to know".
2. It can improve the strength of our success:
If everyone wants to succeed, almost everyone needs the support and help of some people, even individual people. Otherwise, we cannot achieve our goals and pursuits. This is actually the question of "who do you know".
Good interpersonal relationships are manifested in enthusiasm, sincerity, understanding, sympathy, magnanimity, mutual assistance, credit and the combination of principle and flexibility. The factors that promote close and friendly interpersonal relations are to shorten the space distance, increase the frequency of communication, increase similar things, and realize the complementarity of needs.
The personality characteristics that hinder interpersonal relationships are lack of respect and care for others, insincere and unsympathetic towards others, lack of self-esteem and self-confidence, jealousy, suspicion, extreme, stubborn, retaliatory, demanding, relying on others, etc.
The change and development of interpersonal relationship is faster than the satisfaction of the needs of both parties. If they are satisfied with each other, it is easy to have close relations; If the needs are not met and the contradictions between people are not properly solved, the interpersonal relationship will deteriorate.
The importance of building good interpersonal relationships. In real life, most people want to have a good and extensive interpersonal relationship, but some people do not realize the importance of interpersonal relationship. Then let me take you to understand the importance of establishing good interpersonal relationships in detail.
First, good interpersonal relationships can help us make many friends, which is very good for your health. It can keep your body in a positive and active state. On the contrary, if you are lonely, your mood will be depressed for a long time, which will be bad for your health.
Second, good interpersonal relationships can reduce our worries, irritability, impatience, etc. Enhance friendship with friends, enhance feelings, enhance comparative credit, and form harmonious relations.
Third, good interpersonal relationships can promote the metabolism of the body, and good interpersonal relationships can promote the secretion of some special hormones, make people happy, improve physical fitness, and reduce the occurrence of some diseases.
Fourth, good interpersonal relationships can make them sleep well, because good interpersonal relationships make these people relaxed, happy, and have no worries, and then easily fall asleep.
Fifth, people with good interpersonal relationships seldom suffer from psychological diseases, such as depression, because these people are good at talking, cheerful, and can speak out what they have in mind, which is conducive to mental health.
Sixth, good interpersonal relationships are very helpful to career development, because good interpersonal relationships can be liked by more people, and more quickly negotiate business, which plays a great role in promoting your career.
Seventh, a good interpersonal relationship is conducive to the harmony of family relations. Family and everything are thriving. A harmonious family relationship is conducive to a happy life.
The Importance of Establishing Good Interpersonal Relations in University
1. Good interpersonal relationships are conducive to information exchange among college students.
Today is an age of information and knowledge. Science and technology are changing with each passing day, and various new knowledge emerge in endlessly. However, the amount of information and knowledge of a person is limited after all, and it is difficult to learn and write about it alone. Confucius said, "If you study alone without friends, you will be ignorant." This remark hit the nail on the head, pointing out the drawbacks of closed learning. Only by relying on the group of teachers and students, interwoven vertically and horizontally, and widely communicated, can we deepen understanding and broaden knowledge.
2. Good interpersonal relationships are conducive to the development of college students' intelligence and the improvement of their skills.
The intelligence of college students includes observation ability, attention ability, memory ability, thinking ability, imagination ability, etc; The abilities of college students include learning ability, operating ability, creative ability, expression ability, management ability and communication ability. Both the development of intelligence and the improvement of ability are inseparable from interpersonal communication. Everyone has such an experience that when talking with people, their thinking is more active than usual, inspiration frequently appears, and the sparks of wisdom constantly flash. At this time, some lost memories or problems and opinions that have never been considered unexpectedly emerge from their minds, and even they are surprised. In addition, there are some difficult problems that can't be solved no matter how hard you think about them. But after a little bit of help, they suddenly become clear and the problems can be solved easily. British great litterateur Bernard Shaw said: "You and I are friends. Each of us takes an apple and exchanges it with each other. After the exchange, we still have an apple. If you have an idea and I have an idea and exchange it with each other, then everyone has two ideas." Professor Li Zhengdao, a famous Chinese scientist and Nobel laureate, said that he and Professor Yang Zhenning worked together to break the parity conservation law, It was solved during dinner and conversation. This shows how important interpersonal communication is to human intelligence development. The same is true of the relationship between interpersonal communication and ability improvement.
3. Good interpersonal relationships are conducive to improving the learning efficiency of college students.
Many college students have such experience: living in a disunited group, tense relations, indifference, mutual envy, and low learning efficiency; On the contrary, in a class or dormitory, the interpersonal relationship is healthy and harmonious, and everyone naturally feels comfortable. Everyone pays attention to life management, boasts of learning progress, and helps others in case of difficulties. It is like at home to talk and encourage each other. Living in such a cohesive group with centripetal force, learning efficiency will naturally rise with each passing day.
