As the saying goes, many friends have many paths. A good friendship is a stepping stone on our way to success. One more beneficial friend will also be good for our future life. But a good friendship needs to be maintained constantly. If you don't manage carefully, this relationship will fade away gradually. Finally, there will be no intersection between the two. Many good relationships are missed in this way. If you always feel indifferent to giving up to maintain a relationship, then when we face difficulties and find no one around to help, you will find yourself helpless like standing on the top of the mountain, so how should we maintain a relationship? These methods can help you maintain friendship:
1、 Don't mix any utilitarian factors in friendship
In a long friendship, the purpose of their acquaintance and the original intention of getting along must be very simple, without any impurities. They start a friendship only by mutual appreciation and love with each other. Such a friendship can often withstand more tests.
2、 Mutual understanding and tolerance
In getting along with others, we can easily find that people who are prone to conflict with each other are difficult to become friends. In a friendship, two people should have a certain understanding of each other, know each other's shortcomings and imperfections, and know where each other's untouchable points are. In case of conflict, they will not complain about each other, but will actively mediate. Only in this way can we cherish each other's feelings more.
3、 Feel the other party's emotions at the right time and solve their problems
There should be some places between friends that can complement each other and comfort each other when they are in a bad mood. If the other party is sick, tired or lovelorn, you should be the strongest backing of the other party. You should learn to put yourself in the other party's shoes and take corresponding actions to make the other party feel your concern and get more involved in long-term mutual dependence.
4、 Don't demand the other party with your own code of conduct
As the saying goes, be strict with yourself and treat others leniently. In our daily interactions with friends, we should leave more freedom for each other, so that they can do things according to their own ideas, so as not to let others' interactions with you become too restrictive.
5、 Keep in touch
If two people are not in the same place because of various reasons, they should talk to each other in a timely manner, talk about recent events, and share their topics. Don't let each other gradually become indifferent. If there is no topic, express your concern when the other party sends a circle of friends, which can also well maintain a friendship.
6、 Find common goals
In a friendship, we are more likely to be impressed by the experience of mutual support and overcoming difficulties. If you have a common goal and can work hard for it, I believe this will lay a very solid foundation for the sustainable development of your friendship in the future.
If you have done all the above with your friends, congratulations. I believe you will gain a stable friendship. Even if the two places are separated in the future, they can be linked together because of the common values and hobbies.
What can friends do to better maintain friendship?
1、 Communicate carefully
When we talk to friends, we will unconsciously want to speak and make comments. If the relationship is better, we will even call him directly. However, you should remember that communication is a two-way process. If you are always the center of the conversation, and only care about your own comfort, without any response or interruption to the story told by the other party, the relationship between friends may be damaged in the long run, so try to communicate with your heart.
2、 Be a introspective
We should ask our friends about their views and suggestions on their recent actions after a period of time. And carefully listen to their opinions and selectively correct them, which is a great compliment to them. Asking for feedback from friends is not only conducive to self-improvement, but also shows that you value and trust them. No matter whether your background, beliefs and ideas are the same or similar, good friends will give you better advice from the perspective of others.
3、 Mutual supervision and responsibility
A successful friendship should be based on the premise of equality and respect, rather than relying on others and catering to ignorance. Respect your friends and understand their outlook on life and values.
No one can make a correct judgment every time, but good advice and questions are really necessary. You can help your friends understand themselves better. His friendly attitude made him know that we were not trying to discipline him, but to remind his friends of their recent performance. A true friend will understand your kindness and won't dig into your horns.
4、 Learn more about others
If you want to maintain a friendship, attend activities held by friends, such as wedding banquet, graduation banquet, company group building, etc. No matter how long it lasts, your words and actions will impress your friends. And you will also have in-depth exchanges and open talks with your friends in the banquet after banquet.
We should find opportunities to contact more with friends' families and friends, cultivate common hobbies and interests with them as much as possible, understand their personality and principles, and know ourselves and the enemy in order to be invincible and preemptive.
It is very important to maintain good interpersonal relationships. If we want to become popular people, we must learn to interact with others more. Only by associating with more people can we have more friends. So, how can we maintain good interpersonal relationships? Here are five ways to maintain good friendship.
1. Learn to care about others
If we want others to treat us, we have to think about how we should treat others. Everyone needs help sometimes, so we should learn to care about others, so that others will naturally care about us. Similarly, when others need help, we can sincerely help them, and we should believe that we will also get a sincere return.
2. Learn to respect others
People need to respect each other. Respect is the most basic. Only by respecting others can we get respect from others. We should know that respecting others is a virtue, regardless of the low position. We should learn to respect others' behaviors and ideas, because everyone has their own ideas, and we cannot deny them at will. Because everyone is equal and has no lofty status.
3. Praise others sincerely
Everyone wants to be praised and affirmed. Because everyone has vanity, but "vanity" is not bad. When the other party is affirmed by us, we also have a positive impression of being affirmed by others or giving effective responses. Sincere praise is the beginning of smooth communication between people, and praise is also the lubricant of interpersonal relationships.
4. Be sincere
Sincerity is the most basic requirement of communication, and interpersonal skills should be based on sincere communication. If there is cheating or hypocritical perfunctory, these are the desecration of interpersonal relationships. Sincerity can win people's hearts. Sincerity comes from the heart, and the sincerity that comes out of hypocrisy will only make us feel disgusted.
5. Interpersonal interaction
Everyone hopes that others can recognize their own value and accept themselves. So many people will pay attention to self-expression in social interaction, hoping to get others' attention. In fact, we should learn to accept ourselves. Only by accepting ourselves will others accept us. Understand that interpersonal relationships are mutual, and only through mutual efforts can we gain.
