The suggestion is to separate, because no matter whether a girl flies to the branch to become a phoenix or a boy becomes a phoenix man, the result of marriage is always contradictory. The wrong love will not have good results.
If the man's family condition is good, but the woman's family condition is poor, and the girl dreams of Cinderella becoming a princess, even if she is really married, if the girl has no real ability and can't be financially independent, then she will be very painful in her mother-in-law's family. The mother-in-law's family may think that you are just a lazy eater, and they will not treat you kindly.
Unless you have a strong ability to work, your income is not low, and you don't need to rely on your husband's family to live, then your husband's family won't look down on you. Rich people will despise your wife from a poor family, unless your ability can prove that you admire their family.
First of all, the combination of two people is not only a matter of two people, but also related to two families, so you should also understand your parents.
As an adult, you should rationally analyze the objective reality. For example, how about the economic strength of you and your boyfriend? Can you guarantee your life? After all, love is about inviting chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, wine and flowers. But marriage will become tea, rice, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea in the future, which has to be considered.
If these are not problems, then you need to communicate with your parents. You are five years apart. To be honest, there is not much difference. There is also a difference of 10 years, which is called entanglement.
Your parents are against you. There are only two points. One is that they are afraid that he is too young to take care of you. They are afraid that you should take care of him instead, and whether he has the financial strength to ensure your life.
The second one is the problem of face, afraid of others' gossip.
But I think parents all over the world like their children to live well, so the first reason must be the key. You should make your own judgment first, and then communicate with your family. I wish you happiness.
If his parents disagree, it depends on your boyfriend's attitude. I don't believe that he is determined to stay with you, and his parents can still rob people. If they say "break", let them break. Don't believe that it will be a year and a half later to see who asks whom! Especially after you have a baby. So as long as you are firm, especially your parents are also supportive, it will be easy. After all, a boy is the treasure of a family. His parents are absolutely just angry to frighten you. Even if you break it off, you can't live forever. There will always be the day when you unseal it. Love with confidence.
When a girl loves her boyfriend very much and her family disagrees, she should communicate with them to understand the reasons behind it. It depends on the aspects in which parents disagree: whether it is because of the man's work, family conditions, or the disparity between the two sides. We should have in-depth communication with our families, understand the reasons why our parents oppose us, and break down the points that our parents care about one by one, so that we can gradually accept them.
1. Adhere to self
When a girl loves her boyfriend very much, if her family disagrees with her, she should not be affected by the family's opposition. She should trust her own vision and reserve her judgment on love. When a girl insists that her boyfriend is the one she wants, she never wavers even though her parents try every means to obstruct her. When parents see the girl's insistence on this feeling, no matter how much the family dissuades them, they still cannot influence the girl's decision.
2. Live a good life
For parents, most want their daughters to find their own happiness. If the love is opposed by family members, girls must show a firm attitude in front of their parents, and plan their own lives to make themselves better and better. When parents see that the life of a girl and her boyfriend is getting better, they will recognize the girl's original choice. When parents see that the life of their daughter and boyfriend is getting better and happier, there is naturally no reason to oppose it. So girls should manage their own lives well and let their parents believe in your choices and vision.
3. Understand the reasons why parents disagree
As parents, many parents seldom interfere with their children's choice of marriage partners. If the parents strongly oppose the girl's love object, the girl should communicate with the parents to understand the reasons why the parents disagree. You should know that parents all over the world love their children very much. If parents do not agree, there must be some reasons. As a child, we should have in-depth exchanges with our parents to understand the reason, which is because of the man's personality, the boy's educational background, or the family gap. Girls should find out what their parents don't agree with this relationship, and apply the right medicine to the case, so that they can persuade their parents to slowly accept their love object.
