In friendship, the following three characteristics are the most important:
(1) Friendship reflects the friendship between people and the giving of mutual love.
(2) True friendship is a noble moral force, a free gift of human virtue into emotion. It can communicate with the soul, beautify life, stabilize and consolidate society.
(3) Friendship is a tacit understanding that requires equality, mutual assistance, mutual respect and mutual love.
The characteristics of friendship are intimate relationship, equality, two-way, spiritual encounter, not unchangeable, not without principles and so on. Friendship is an emotion that comes from a two-way (or interactive) relationship, that is, the emotion that is congealed by both parties must be maintained together. Any unilateral goodwill or deviation cannot be called friendship. Intimacy is the core component of friendship, and intimacy has become an important indicator to measure the degree of friendship. Friendship is the source of happiness. Sociologists point out that the reason why people with different incomes and social status can have their own sense of happiness is largely due to the existence of friendship factors.
The main characteristics of friendship are:
1. Firm support. My friends will support me when I am frustrated, lost, struggling or successful. You can ask your friends for help. They don't expect anything in return.
2. You should celebrate each other's success. Friends have been selflessly celebrating your success. They are also excited, even more excited about your victory than you are. You are not jealous of each other's achievements.
3. You can laugh at any situation, no matter how tragic, frustrating or confusing. Recently, I went to accompany a dear friend of mine who had just lost her husband in a tragic accident. I told her, "Don't worry, you won't be alone. I want to marry you!" She burst into laughter, and we laughed together in sadness.
4. Friendship never dies. Physical distance prevents me from seeing many friends regularly. A few months or years later, when we see each other, it's like no time has passed.
5. Clean up space with them when necessary. You are honest. If they hurt you or upset you, you have the courage to understand each other and create new space for your friendship.
6. You let some friendship go. Just like some romantic love, friendship may become stagnant or unhealthy. Or, you grow differently.
You must have the courage to end your relationship. Or if the natural relationship fails, you release your guilt. You accept that you can't keep every friend you have. Ending friendship with your friends gives way to greater ability to maintain your current and future friendship.
7. Forgive your friends. Forgive your friends when they don't have the courage to ask for forgiveness.
8. Boundary. Every relationship needs boundaries. If your friends are going through a difficult period that causes you pain, you also support them. You tell them that you must keep some distance while supporting them.
9. You give up everything just to accompany her. After your friend broke up or was fired, he cried with you on the phone. At night, you gave up your plan to accompany her instead. A tragedy happens, and you simply appear. You not only send text messages or emails, you pick up the phone and talk to her. Come face to face if you can.
10. Your friends will become friends. My favorite place for such friendship is the wedding. I went to the wedding alone, stayed in the same room with the bride's friends, and then we immediately became friends.
