The long-distance girlfriend is in a bad mood. What should I do? As a boy, he should pay more attention to his girlfriend and know how to coax his long-distance girlfriend.
1. Take good care of her
No matter how busy you are every day, you must call her every day. Even if she listens to your voice every day, it is also conducive to maintaining your feelings. You must let her know that her position in your heart is irreplaceable, and distance cannot affect your love.
2. Be sure to communicate with each other more
① When the distance is extended, the communication between two people will gradually become less. This is the situation that the two sides are most worried about when communicating, because if they do not communicate, they will easily misunderstand each other.
② If misunderstanding is not eliminated, their feelings will easily become bad. So it's better to make more calls or use social software to communicate with both parties.
3. Concerned and considerate greetings
When a girlfriend in a different place feels unhappy, she undoubtedly needs the care and enlightenment of her lover. When she is wronged, she can get the care and attention of her lover, which can also make her feel sweet and happy.
4. Give gifts to your girlfriend
Don't talk about how to give gifts in a long-distance relationship. You can send it anywhere you want. Who doesn't know the convenience of online shopping? How can I get angry when I buy gifts or express flowers for my girlfriend? You can secretly buy some small gifts and send them to her. Not around, but it can also surprise her, right.
5. Encourage and support her
① If a boy wants to make his girlfriend happy, first of all, it is difficult for two people to comfort each other with practical actions because they cannot meet and contact each other directly because they are in a different place.
② Then, they should give her more support and encouragement in spirit. When the girlfriend is happy, the man should stand on the other side to analyze problems and patiently enlighten the other side, so that she can feel at ease when being wronged.
6. Don't be cold and violent
① Many people who are used to cold violence think: I don't want to quarrel, everyone should treat it rationally, and then the matter will end, or we can treat it rationally and reason. This is wrong. Do you think you are rational, so it is not easy to argue?
② No, because a rational person didn't show his mentality, he felt very aggrieved and suddenly wanted to blow his feathers. This is the same as above. If it is not very good, it must be cleaned, so there is no need to store too much.
Long distance love is a kind of love that is easy to roll over. If you don't manage the relationship between two people well, things are easy to happen. As a boyfriend, you must work hard in this long-distance relationship. Long distance love makes your girlfriend happy.
The routine of long-distance love to make girlfriend happy
1. Remember to keep in touch with your girlfriend when you are in a long-distance relationship. You can set a fixed time every day to call your girlfriend on WeChat, ask her about her daily life, share your life, and briefly talk about recent events.
2. Remember to give more surprises to your girlfriend in other places, such as gifts, which are not necessarily holidays, but can usually be used. The surprise effect is generally very good, which will make your girlfriend very happy.
3. Don't tell your girlfriend in advance and suddenly appear in front of her (when you know that she is free). Thousands of words are not as important as real company.
4. There are many ways to make your girlfriend happy - such as playing games with her, listening to music with her, etc. Those who can't make their girlfriend happy or happy will lose her eventually.
Your girlfriend is angry in a long-distance love affair. She deletes your friend and threatens to break up. As a boy, you may make three mistakes.
The first mistake: not caring enough about her. Long distance love is inherently prone to problems, but once problems arise, it is difficult to solve them. Inadequate care for her leads to her accumulation of unhealthy emotions and disappointment. Anger at you is the threshold of disappointment. The quarrel, complaint or angry words that break out at this time are to attract attention and seek comfort. This is the stage of remedy and appeasement. Knock the blackboard!! Don't preach to her at this time! After all, you can only choose one girlfriend.
The second mistake: not giving back her demands in time. She may be in trouble with you or miss you too much. As a boyfriend, it is dereliction of duty that you cannot accompany her because you are in a different place. Will you die if you say a few soft words at this time? However, you did not respond to her correctly and timely when she cried angrily, instead, you continued to ignore her. (For example, I told her the truth, didn't think I was wrong, thought she was unreasonable, etc.) My boyfriend fell asleep when I was crying and listing his mistakes!! The next day I pulled him black. Your first mistake was not difficult to remedy, but your continued neglect and incorrect reaction led to an escalation of the problem: she pulled you black and threatened to break up with you.
The third mistake: cold and violent to her when she is most upset. Lahei means that she has been very disappointed with you. However, if she does not involve a third party, such a breakup is against her will. Girls will usually tell you with such an angry behavior that you may lose your baby if you don't coax me.
At this time, she has been in a very sad state, and may have had mild self abuse behaviors, such as hunger strike, crying, and not taking medicine when she is ill. If you love her, you should love her, talk big or follow her angry words and agree to break up. Congratulations! You will become a real single dog in the near future!
Many boys naively think that when their girlfriend is angry and black, she may calm down and take the initiative to make up after a few days of cold weather. According to experience, this possibility is very small!! Imagine a person who abandoned her when she was most angry and sad. When she calmed down, she might not think about reconciliation, but about the significance of this relationship rationally.
At this time, it is suggested to appear in front of her immediately!! Sincerely apologize! phone! giving gifts. Comfort and care! Wait downstairs! Speak softly! Always sincerely moved her! Let her feel that you still care about her love her. Even if there are some of her mistakes, she will realize and admit them after the event until she is moved to forgive you. Otherwise, please repeat the above behavior.
Of course, if you don't care about her for a long time, you can break up by waiting for her to say this sentence, so that she will not only break up as usual, but also bear the burden of breaking up.
