There is a way to make up for the break up with friends. Because friends have already broken up with each other, it was only because everyone was angry at some things at that time, and no one would compromise first, which led to the break up of friends. In fact, people's friendship sometimes appears conflicts. It is normal to split up and split up. If you can handle the conflicts between friends, Then the feelings between two people will be more profound.
On the contrary, if there is no minor contradiction between friends all their lives, it means that the feelings between two people are not so deep. Many friends pretend not to care about each other because they are afraid of each other's anger, but actually have their own small abacus at the heart. This kind of friendship is hypocritical. It is just a superficial friend, not the kind that can make heart to heart, Only when you care about the feelings of both sides, will there be many contradictions. Such friends are often friends who can really get along with each other.
So when there is a conflict between friends, don't be too sad, because the reason why two people become friends is that in the bottom of my heart, both people pay special attention to each other. Often, after the conflict, two people don't contact each other for a long time, but in my heart, they miss each other very much, and often think of the happy days together before, but because I can't put my face down, So no one took the initiative to contact the other party.
In order to ease the relationship between friends, don't care about your own face at this time. From now on, you should pay more attention to your friends' closeness and learn more about what your friends can do to help. The most important step after learning is to help friends who have broken up secretly, not let the other party know openly, and then through others, Let others tell your friends who have broken up with you that you helped them. At this time, I believe that your friend who has broken up with you must be very moved. At this time, if you take the initiative to contact him again, your relationship will be relaxed, even deeper than before.
How to recover from breaking up with friends
Step 1: contact the other party and apologize
You can apologize to the other party first, whether it's the other party's fault or your fault. Since you want to make up with the other party, you should put down all the grudges and ask for forgiveness.
Step 2: Apologize sincerely
Now that we have chosen to apologize, we should be sincere. We can invite the other party to the place where you often meet and have a good chat instead of a simple text message or phone call. After all, it is very serious to break up with each other. Don't think that if you say a few words, others will easily get along with you
Step 3: Check the other party's response
If the other party can accept your apology and forgive you, that's the best thing. It shows that your goal has been achieved. If the other party does not accept your humility, it doesn't matter. After all, you are not a god, and you can't influence other people's thoughts. Whether you want to make peace or not means that other people want to make peace with you. You can only accept the reality calmly.
Step 4: Coordinate with the people they know
The authorities are riddles, and the onlookers are clear. In many cases, you two may not be able to communicate, but you can coordinate through a third party. Your friends must know each other, or you must know each other's friends. Then we can turn to them for help, which may be effective.
Step 5: solve the problem from the source
It is necessary to find out why you broke up with each other. If you understand the source and solve it, it may be saved.
Step 6: If the other party is really unwilling to make up with you, you can only bless the other party
Maybe some things can't be undone when they happen. Since you show all your sincerity and the other party still doesn't give you a chance, you have to give up making up with the other party, go your own way, get well, and go your own way.
Breaking up is that you two have died of old age, so it's no use apologizing to him. If he ignores you, he ignores you, which is a normal psychology.
You have broken off with someone else. Why should someone deal with you? It doesn't make sense. What's more, why should you go to him to apologize when you have broken off? It's a bit unclear. Since you are so heartless, why should you go there to apologize.
So sometimes you must have a clue when you do something. Don't finish it and then regret it. There is no regret medicine in the world. Don't look for it after you finish it. Leave some dignity for yourself. Other people also have their own dignity, which is not something that you can call at once.
