First of all, it depends on whether you are familiar with your relatives. If you are familiar with them, it is good for someone to take you with them. If you are not familiar with them, you can help them well, but you can't help them. Although they don't say it, they still have opinions about you and your family in their hearts, and they think you are in their favor; To tell the truth, after all, relatives are relatives rather than your closest relatives, and it is inevitable that you will still have ideas sometimes. (Personal feeling)
Second, you are very familiar with your relatives, but there is also a hidden danger. You may be accommodating to everything. Later, you may learn less. I suggest that you go out to your relatives' relevant industries to experience it first, and then go to your relatives to hone yourself, so that your relatives feel that you are no longer a child and will not be accommodating to everything, Let you learn more things; Second, knowing other companies in other industries can help your relatives to return to their companies.
The five outcomes of working for acquaintances are as follows:
1、 To work for relatives, the salary is relatively low compared with that of the same industry, and relatives always think that you are taking advantage of them. They will regard themselves as your food and clothing parents. Your food, clothing, housing and transportation are all supported by relatives. In addition, no matter how diligent you are, relatives will think that you are dawdling. In general, you do more, relatives think you deserve it, and you do less, Relatives think you are cheating, you want to earn money from relatives, but relatives want your life.
2、 Relatives will use family ties to set you up. They often ask you to work overtime voluntarily. At best, they will have a good attitude towards you. Or they will say good words to you, both coaxing you and deceiving you, making you feel flattered. As for overtime pay, relatives will make no mention of it. They will pretend to be confused. If they change jobs, relatives will complain that you are ungrateful and even relatives cannot do it in the future, Relatives kidnap you purely with affection.
In addition, relatives often make arrears of wages, and even let you advance relevant funds first.
3、 No matter hard work or hard work, I will ask you to do it, because you will not refuse because of your kindness. On the contrary, I will treat outsiders with respect and respect, and my relatives will not dare to neglect. As time passes, you will become a big enemy.
4、 Relatives will regard kinship as a trade, and use it as a means of using you. For the sake of the so-called interests, relatives will refuse to recognize their relatives, preferring to spend their kinship as a price, and eventually become enemies. In addition, relatives will definitely be obsequious and say they will reuse their own people. In the end, when relatives promote others, relatives will use the excuse of avoiding suspicion to reuse outsiders, Avoid being mistaken for cronyism. There is no doubt that relatives are playing tricks.
5、 In case of salary arrears, I'm sorry to ask for it. In particular, most of the migrant workers on the construction site work for their acquaintances. Before they finish their work on the construction site, they only need living expenses at most. They will pay two or three thousand yuan a month and pay off at the end of the year. In case of salary arrears, I am embarrassed to ask for salary due to human relations.
The key is that relatives do things. There are some things that are difficult to say to the face, but they are said behind the scenes, and the meaning is passed on by some purposeful people, which increases mutual suspicion between relatives until the relationship is broken.
What he gives you is charity. You should thank him for his help and salary. You are relatives, so you should always think of him.
You should do everything because he is the boss and you have to do it. If you don't do it well, you will not be a relative. If you don't do it well, you should be scolded. Because he helps you and you don't know how to repay your kindness, these two attitudes will be magnified and eventually become enemies.
