When we are in love, our girlfriend often proposes to break up. What should we do when our girlfriend proposes to break up? The following is my compilation of what should we do when our girlfriend proposes to break up, for your reference, hoping to help our friends in need.
What should I do when my girlfriend breaks up
1. coax your girlfriend
Let her tell herself where she did wrong and why she said she wanted to break up cruelly. You said that you loved her very much and could not accept the break up at all. Then find out what she hated and disliked by her girlfriend, and correct it. Let her girlfriend increase her affection for you again, instead of just saying it, prove it to your girlfriend with practical actions, Let her no longer have the previous view of you, so as to cancel the idea that her girlfriend wants to break up.
2. Threaten your girlfriend
Tell my girlfriend that you want to break up with me, and I will jump off the building. I can't live without you. Oh, I have a beautiful vision of the future with you, but without you, all this has been broken. Oh, you can find happiness only when you are with me. How much I love you, and no one can love you more than I do. They just want to be hypocritical to you, As long as I am really good to you, you will never see me again after you leave me.
3. Caring for girlfriend
There must be a reason for the other party to break up, but the girlfriend is really determined to break up. At that time, the relationship may really end. She will not return when you send a text message or call, and also say that you don't bother her, so you should try to bother her. Maybe her heart is that you give her more care, so that she can feel full of love, So you must not be fascinated by your girlfriend's words, but pay more attention to your girlfriend.
4. Take care of your girlfriend
I'm sure you are busy with your work, have a lot of social intercourse every day, go home drunk, and she is sick in the hospital, so she asked you to go to the hospital to accompany her. You have no time to accompany her because you are busy with your work, so you can only break up. So you should spend more time with your girlfriend, and don't ignore your girlfriend because you are busy with your work, When you are sick, you should take more care of them, otherwise they will not be able to leave for a long time.
5. Retain your girlfriend
Tell your girlfriend about the beauty of love at the beginning, and they all understand each other. Even if there is a lot of anger, they will not break up. They are still together happily. Now you think we are really not suitable for being together because of a little contradiction. After all, we have gone through these years, and we also need to look at the feelings of the past, so don't say break up, There is no such thing as a quarrel between lovers. Just be considerate of each other. I apologize to you.
6. Apologize girlfriend
I'm sure my girlfriend is very dissatisfied with what I did, and then I propose to break up with you. I really don't want to be with you. In this case, I should immediately apologize to my girlfriend, saying that you are wrong, or I will never admit that I did something wrong, which will make my girlfriend more disgusted with you, Don't oppose your girlfriend. You can't argue with women, or you'll have to break up.
What if my girlfriend wants to break up?
1、 Don't be confused by anxiety
When my girlfriend wants to break up, I inevitably feel anxious. If a person is completely confused by anxiety, he will lose all normal judgment ability and can't control himself. You must realize that your anxiety is not actually due to the departure of the other party, but your lack of confidence and sense of security is the root cause of the problem.
You can make a detailed list in your essay, detailing what the other party's speech and behavior will cause your anxiety. When the other party shows these words and behaviors, you will be given many choices. You can avoid them, ignore them, or tell the other party honestly. It's better to be in a deep state of anxiety. Maybe the other party will give you a very good response and give you a turning point.
2、 Change mindset
Girlfriend has the idea of breaking up, saying that breaking up is not always a sudden and casual, and that leaving is also a long planned. You should calm down first. Don't be unable to do something to detain you, and don't use your mind set to speculate about the other side.
The reason why your girlfriend wants to break up is that you always think of her as a bad person and think that she is close to you. When the emotion comes to the final important situation, the girlfriend still has a glimmer of hope to see what you want to say and what difficulties must be assisted. But your mind set kills everything. In fact, in many cases, things are not so bad. If you can change your thinking mode and have a pure concept of physical and mental health, you will have confidence and happiness.
3、 The more coaxed, the more pleasing
My girlfriend wanted to break up because she felt tired. If only she works hard, and the unilateral efforts do not respond, no matter how good the efforts are, what effect will it have. Her boyfriend only exists in name, can't take care of her, but also makes her suffer. A man can't shoulder his obligations. Isn't that waste?
Boys are usually spoiled by women all the time, and women are more spoiled. Don't want to break up with her. If you really like her, you should spoil her and make her feel happy. The more a girl is coaxed, the more attractive she is. Think more about what she needs. If you want to attract her, you must consider her needs as much as possible.
4、 Be nice to her as always
The women clearly proposed to break up. If the boys were angry and resentful, it would be impossible to deal with her. In fact, it is normal to propose a breakup, and it is also normal for women to reject you. Which woman agrees with others' pursuit of perfection at the beginning, not to mention many discomfort after falling in love?
Girlfriend wants to break up. If you still love him in your heart, you must choose to redeem him. You must take the initiative to admit your mistakes to him, move her with your heart, and create more warm and romantic atmosphere for her. It depends on the state of the two people before. If your feelings are very deep and you still want to stay with each other after breaking up, you can choose to get back together. After all, this is your own choice. You should be able to bear no matter what the result is after you get back together, because if you get together for a long time, you will get back together.
Personally, I think you should solve the reason for your breakup before getting back together. Why did you break up? If it is because of some trivial things, you can talk to him about it and then you can get back together. If it is because of some principled mistakes, such as the derailment of a certain party, and he has made you green, then if he can guarantee that he will never do this again in the future, and can be absolutely loyal to you, he can also get back together.
