What should I say when I ask others for advice at work? We will inevitably encounter difficulties in our work, but how can we ask others? Here are some mistakes you can't make, otherwise no one will be willing to help you in the future.
Error 1: Don't take notes, consult frequently
One kind of question asks the other party repeatedly. Anyone who meets it will be annoyed. So when we ask questions, we should not always think that our brains are good and our memory is not as good as bad writing. So if we really want to ask questions, we should try to understand them once and for all. We should not ask such questions frequently in the future. No one wants to always help a fool or a person who is unwilling to worry.
Error 2: Interrupt others
When we ask others for advice, we should listen to others patiently. Don't interrupt others before they finish speaking, so don't pretend to be smart enough to interrupt others. We can retell others' words after they have finished speaking, and then give feedback to them for confirmation.
Error 3: complaining
Let's ask others about their problems. Don't complain all the time. Who has positive motivation to respond to your problems after spreading negative energy all the time.
Error 4: half knowing, pretending to understand
Now that we have asked others for advice, we have figured it out at one time. Don't go to ask others for advice with the feeling of being embarrassed and afraid of wasting others' time. If you don't want to waste other people's time, ask them all at once, and then turn around and thank them. This is also full respect for each other. Don't pretend to understand. When others explain something, they pretend to understand it. When they do something, they don't do it that way. In the end, they will lose face. So don't pretend to understand when asking others.
It is certain to encounter problems in work, but it is also skilful to ask others for advice. The above four mistakes of asking others for advice must not be made, or they will cause others to be unwilling to help you again.
