The best way to break up a friend is to lend him money. When money is involved in the best relationship, the best friendship will become indifferent and become a stranger. This method is the best.
An old friend who is not in touch with you just needs to follow your heart. No one can stay with you forever. This is especially true of friends. When you are moving in the same direction, you have walked together. When you walk, you will find that your destination is different and you will leave. It may be a pity, but this is the normal state of life.
Now facing old friends who haven't contacted for a long time, he doesn't know how to contact them and what to say, but he still wants to establish contact with them in his heart, otherwise he won't get tangled, just ignore their news.
If you want to connect with old friends, you don't need to think too much. It's good to express your ideas sincerely. A classmate gathering is a good opportunity for everyone to re-establish contact.
The most important thing to attend the homecoming is to put your own mind in order. Be sincere. Those students who have lived and studied together are worthy of remembrance. The feelings between students that do not mix with any interests are worth cherishing. So don't use a bad attitude to attend the homecoming, or you may lose these friends completely.
Since you can't refuse directly, the best way to alienate is to be polite. There is no need to pay more attention to human relations. If you can't do it again, the other party will only feel that there is hope with you.
The three piece set is the same as the "three no's":
1. Don't refuse: since you are afraid of embarrassment, just answer his chat politely. Well, oh, OK, thank you. I'm sorry I don't have time. Apart from these words, other chats are unnecessary, let alone active chats.
2. Don't promise: When the other party needs your help, no matter how big or small, just refuse. You can't help with big things, and you don't need a friend who hasn't contacted you for many years to help with small things. A boy seldom needs a girl to help him.
3. Don't accept: if he wants to invite you to dinner, he will sit down and eat unless he can't avoid bumping into each other, but he will settle the bill after dinner. Of course, if you still pay, he doesn't make any noise. There will be no future. The same is true for other things, such as delivering things.
There are principles in making friends. If you are not suitable for making friends and don't want to break your face, it is best to find excuses, be polite and keep a distance. Don't hurt yourself and don't want to offend others.
