Women are made of water, so women are vulnerable. When a woman is desperate for you, the relationship between you is irretrievable. At this time, women's hearts are very hard, cold, and indifferent. So what you should do is to make women have a little good impression on you. Only in this way can women be completely satisfied with you. So, how to recover a woman's heart? 1. Learn to listen to women. When a woman is in a bad mood, she needs someone to comfort her most. At this time, what you need to do is learn to listen to her and let her talk about her troubles. At this time, you can help her and ease your relationship.
No matter how desperate a woman is, she is afraid of being "hanged". If you master it, she will beg for your recovery?
Many male friends become more depressed, drunk and confused after breaking up. It's like saying to the other party, "Without you, my life is really bad!" Do you think the other party will care about you? Will your depression still touch her heart? Neither. Since the other party wants to break up, it will never be up and down by your emotions. She just feels that she can't leave her at all. If she wants to go home, she just needs to hook her finger at me; If you don't want to come back, you can only be worried all day long.
On the contrary, if you continue to work hard to improve your value, you may be more attractive than when you were in love before. She can't help wondering: is it a wrong decision to separate? If you give up, can you find a better man? Only in this way can you really save this relationship. The road to recovery may be difficult, but it is important for the method. The following principles need to be adhered to in the process of recovery.
1. Take out the responsibility of being a man
With a responsible attitude for your emotions, you should have a certain overall plan for your future development, not just take one step at a time. Even if it is just a small plan, it is all about your future life. This is also something that needs to be done before recovery. Even if it is unsuccessful, it is better than nothing. Remember, your life has already begun when he is sure to be with you again.
2. Don't be shameless
After breaking up with the other party, don't actively contact her, let alone stick to the other party all the time. I know you still love her very much, but it seems that she doesn't have much feelings for you at present. Keep a certain distance from her, and get to know her in another way, such as contact as a friend.
3. Have their own attitude
Most of the time, problems between two people may be due to the habitual collision between them. One of the two people will lose his temper first in the dispute. Therefore, you should have your own attitude in the relationship. If you make a mistake, admit it immediately, reflect on yourself, and don't just find excuses for yourself. A man's openness should be displayed on all levels, including in front of the person you like. It is not cowardly to admit mistakes immediately. It is more a burden, which can let her see the sense of mission she yearns for in you. In addition to the incorrect attitude, you should have your own attitude towards the important and trivial things that happen in daily life. Women must be spoiled, but they are not just spoiled, spoiled and wanton. That will make you less and less important.
4. Have their own perseverance
It is a long way to recover. It is not a long time, but a problem you will encounter on the road. She may be dead hearted to you. Therefore, I despise you and even don't give you the chance to meet. This is not an easy road to walk on. In addition to the hope for your love, we also need to focus on the problems, and we also need to attach great importance to the problems. To seriously consider your problems, you need to pursue her, and also have the courage to change the status quo.
5. Take out and practice
Real men always talk by behavior. The promise of being forever and having no edge in the world exists in the novel. Whether I correct problems or pursue perfection in the future, I need to put it into action and let it see. This is your persistence, attitude and effort to feelings. Apart from work, the rest of leisure time is the core of emotional life. For this, both men and women can enrich themselves by creating some hobbies. For example, I can learn photography, exercise and run, and participate in extreme sports. This will broaden your knowledge, open your mind, create your high added value, and is also the only way to return to objectivity.
Desperate women break up to save their unique skills
1. Change yourself in time
The only thing you can do is to change yourself, get rid of some shortcomings and shortcomings that she once complained about, and become her "ideal type". Naturally, she can no longer refuse you. Change requires you to step out of your comfort zone, rather than simply buying gifts, apologizing, telling her your innermost feelings, bravely taking the first step of change and expecting you to succeed.
2. Cut off all connections
Many people worry that if they don't contact each other after breaking up, they will really forget me or find a new lover. In fact, there is absolutely no need to worry. As long as two people who really love each other, they will not easily forget this relationship, but will turn to the next one. After the breakup, both of them were emotionally unstable, so it's better to give each other some time and space to calm down. When you are really separated from Ta, he will really realize that he doesn't have you in his life and think how important you are to him. Instead, he will take the initiative to contact you.
3. Stop complaining and emotional dependence
Research shows that the best way to maintain a relationship is to keep it fresh. When two people stay together for a long time, they will inevitably lose interest in each other. Even many people stay together every day and say no more than three sentences. This is also an important reason why many people are tired of long-term love life and break up. If you want Ta to be attracted to you again, you should let the other party see your different side, such as changing your hair style and clothing style, so that Ta will be interested in you and gradually approach you. Of course, the most important thing is to find reasons from yourself. Every breakup is not without reason.
4. Be broad-minded
The society will not be so kind, maybe he will be broken and bleeding. The society will directly eliminate those unqualified people: don't expect an elder to patiently analyze your mistakes in work in the future. Generally speaking, you will not react to whether you wear shoes or not until others are promoted and paid. So do feelings. In some emotions, they are not yours. Every mistake and immature place will be told to you patiently and meticulously, but you don't have so many employees (note that employees are not dog headed strategists) to give you advice. You think you have established the other party well, and you think you are the leader of this relationship. You didn't wake up until the news of the breakup came. You begged each other to come back with your nose and tears.
