The best way to deal with those who are bad to themselves and deliberately bully themselves is to ignore them and stay away from them. If he still bullies himself, let him suffer a little and let him know that you also have a bottom line, and you are not easy to mess with.
Personally, I think that someone has punished you in the following ways:
1. If you offend others so that others punish you, you can communicate reasonably and say contradictions to avoid unnecessary harm.
2. If you haven't done anything and others just want to punish you, you can think that it is your own excellence that causes others' jealousy psychologically, and you should continue to be excellent in action to convince others completely.
The method is as follows:
1. Persuade with advice, not force the other party to do so with orders. First, understand the difference between command, persuasion and advice:
The essence of command: compulsion compels action.
The essence of persuasion: making others cooperate.
The essence of advice: advice without compulsion.
First, give a definition of the order: "The party who has more advantages in identity, status, psychology and other aspects will issue mandatory instructions to the other party to force the other party to accept their own decisions and views."
An order is a unilateral decision that is not easily transferred by the will of the person who orders it. If you just need the other party to obey your own instructions, you can use the command as a coercive means to produce effects, such as "you go to sort out this document".
Orders are emotionless and mandatory. They are characterized by immediacy, which takes effect immediately like pressing a button. In work, commands are frequently issued and used. But outside of work, commands don't work that well. Because the command represents the neglect of the individual will of the ordered.
Those who deliberately exasperate people are those who have a dark heart and cannot see the light. Such people have no skills, but they are very jealous.
Such people are not only dissatisfied with you, they are dissatisfied with the whole world. What should I do when I meet such people who deliberately annoy me?
1. You just need to live your original life as always, and don't be disturbed by villains.
2. You should constantly improve and improve yourself. The better you live, the more powerful you will be against those who are so interested in you.
3. You don't need to tangle with the person who deliberately annoys you. When he is air, he is completely despised.
4. As long as you believe in karma, those who are worthy of their hearts need no explanation.
5. For those who deliberately annoy you, all your excellence is the bullet that shoots at the villain. The bullet pierces his heart. Time can witness everything, and he must be angry first
6. When encountering people who deliberately annoy others, you can tolerate them if you can. However, you can never give in, because villains will "push forward".
7. It is not too late to win with wisdom.
8. A person who deliberately annoys others is definitely not a good person. Entanglement with a bad person consumes your own life. It is necessary and the best way to avoid it.
9. Don't let anyone or anything disturb your heart. Watching him "perform" with a condescending attitude, hahaha, let him want to be angry with others for failing to achieve his goal, instead, he will be angry with himself and throw stones at his own feet.
10. I believe that evil will prevail over good. I am upright and proud in the Jianghu.
