Many new friends don't know how to get along with their old colleagues, so we can teach you some tips here so that you can get along quickly with your old colleagues and become a popular person.
1. Don't get too close the first time, get close the second time
Getting close at the first time will make others think you are deliberate, even make people think you are clever. At the same time, getting close at the first meeting will not let others know you, nor will they tell you too much. So we can put it in the second or later meeting. For example, when you meet next time, you can help the other party get a courier, print documents and other small things. In this way, the other party will feel that you are easy to get along with.
2. Use public affairs to launch topics
We can ask others questions, but the questions should not be too difficult or too easy, because too difficult questions may not be answered by others, and too easy questions will be considered how stupid you are. So ask some questions that the other person can answer, and he still has a sense of achievement after helping you solve them. You can also show respect for the other person. In addition, you can also ask some questions about life oriented public affairs. For example, you can ask him what delicious food is near his company, so that everyone can talk.
3. Capture communication signals and respond positively
If you find that the other person is willing to chat with you, or the other person comes to you on his own initiative, you must not end the conversation with a short response, because a short response will make the other person think that you are cold and difficult to contact, so we should actively respond to the other person. When it is time to ask the other person, ask the other person back and interact actively. For example, the other side said your shoes are very beautiful, where did you buy them? If a short answer to online shopping, it will make others feel that you are not in a good mood or something. You can respond by saying, "I bought it in a Taobao store and spent a long time looking for it. If you like to add my WeChat back, I will send you the link." In this way, the other party will think you are particularly enthusiastic.
4. Give some small gifts with the help of some festival activities
For example, on the Mid Autumn Festival and Christmas, buy some small gifts for each other, with thoughtful words written on them, or sometimes give them to their children instead of themselves, which will make the other party more favorable to you. Because many people don't have a sense of ritual under the festival, if you have a sense of ritual, it will make the other party feel that you are very attentive.
If new employees want to get along with old employees quickly, they can use the above tips. The workplace is a technical job, and mastering communication technology can lay a foundation for future workplace life.
