Talking about your inner heart can increase your feelings.
If two people can chat with each other to the bottom of their hearts, then it is easy for two people to resonate. In this way, feelings can be easily talked out. People are emotional animals. Two people can trust each other when chatting. They can chat with each other in a special way. If they can talk with you about everything in their hearts, then it is an opportunity to increase feelings.
The way to talk about feelings:
1. Be good at listening. After being together for a long time, there will be no sense of freshness. Together, we will talk about things in work, study and life. However, many people will feel very upset. So, at this time, we should learn to listen, listen to each other's complaints, share his happiness, and share his sadness. Only in this way can we enhance the relationship between the two people.
2. Control your emotions. Maybe when two people first met or just established a relationship, they can tolerate everything. No matter what mistakes the other party made or did, they can tolerate everything. But after a long time, they will not do this. But out of rational thinking, we should control our emotions, Don't lose your temper to the other party, and don't spread your emotions on the person who loves you.
3. Close contact, lots of close contact. Since it is a relationship between lovers, there is no taboo for close contact, but we should pay attention to the image in public. You can hug her when meeting, and kiss her secretly when no one is around. Girls are very sensitive to these. Close contact lets the other party know that you care about her, So intimate contact can increase feelings.
4. Always share. If you are in a long-distance relationship, you will definitely call frequently. When you call, you will talk more about the things that happen around you, and share the things that happen around you, so that the other person will feel that you are beside him. If it is not a long-distance relationship, you can also talk and laugh together often, and share the things that happen to each other, This will also enhance feelings.
5. Take it seriously. Don't treat love carelessly or half heartedly. Be good to only one person and serious about people and things. As long as you take things seriously, there will be no major problems. When dealing with things, you should think of each other and consider their feelings. If you take them seriously, they will also take you seriously, In this way, your feelings will become deeper and deeper.
There are ways to chat with girls and talk about their feelings: be able to find interesting topics, figure out girls' thoughts, and understand girls' psychology.
1、 Be able to find interesting topics.
It is to find topics that girls are interested in, which is the basis for chatting with girls to enhance feelings.
Different girls have different hobbies, and different girls have different interests.
When chatting, we should be good at finding and discovering topics that girls are interested in, and focus on the usual: first, we should observe the girls' speech and behavior; Second, pay more attention to the dressing style of girls at ordinary times; The third is to summarize the living and eating habits of girls at ordinary times.
Only by observing, paying attention to and summarizing more often, can we find topics of interest to girls when chatting with them, so that we can talk more and more speculatively, and more and more willing to talk.
2、 Be able to fathom girls' thoughts.
When chatting with girls, you can guess what girls are thinking and need at the same time.
When chatting with girls, the most common taboo for boys is talking to themselves.
Don't look at the response of girls and don't think about the needs of girls. As a result, the more topics you talk, the less interesting you are.
When chatting with girls, we should grasp three points: first, look at the girls' expressions: tight or stretched; The second is to see the response of girls: the response is positive or coping; The third is the body language of girls: whether the body is naturally relaxed or rigid and uneasy.
When chatting with girls, the content of the chat should be adjusted in time according to their different reactions.
Try to be close to or conform to the ideas and thoughts of girls, so as to resonate with them.
3、 We should understand the psychology of girls.
Generally, girls are weak in temperament, delicate in feelings, and have a strong sense of self-protection.
I always want to find a tall and handsome boy to protect myself when I get along with boys or chat with them.
When chatting with girls, you must pay attention to your expression and tone of voice. When it is time to increase it, you must increase it. When it is time to slow down, you must slow down.
Especially when chatting on WeChat, QQ or phone, both parties should pay special attention.
In order to avoid girls' misunderstanding, they will feel bored and afraid.
