In many cases, it is very easy to distinguish whether a boy likes himself or not. We only need to observe carefully.
Therefore, I would like to share the following views with you:
1. When we really like a person, we can tell from our own eyes. If there is a person we like in our eyes, and they are very clear and bright, then it can be said that we have a good opinion of this person, because the eyes are the last thing we can do to deceive a person, So you can tell whether a boy likes him or not by looking at him.
2. When two people get along at ordinary times, if the other party is easily affected by their emotions and accompanies them all the time, it can also show that the boy has a good opinion of himself. Because only when we really like a person, we will make some changes for each other, so in many cases, we can tell from each other's small details, because most people want to show their best side to the person they like, and then let the other person like them, In this way, the probability of two people walking together will be greatly increased.
Boys like to watch girls, which is known to all. But not every girl will go to see it. Only when they see a girl who is attractive to them, they will see more. So if a boy often looks at you secretly, nine out of ten he likes you.
See if he will strike up a conversation with you
If he likes you, he will try his best to get your contact information, whether by asking you or others. This is a kind of performance of having a good opinion of you.
See if he often chats with you
If a boy has feelings for you, after he gets your contact information, he will definitely get in touch with you through various ways, such as making phone calls, sending text messages, or interacting with you in the QQ and WeChat circle of friends.
See if he likes to ask you what you are doing
A boy who likes you will like to ask you what you are doing, because he wants to know everything about you. Even if it is boring to ask, he will still ask, so that he can find the topic and understand you more from the details.
See if he will ask you about your emotional state
If one day he asks you about your emotional status and whether you have a boyfriend, you should be extra careful. In nine cases out of ten, he is interested in you. Otherwise, he cares so much about what he does, unless he is your very good friend.
See if he often mentions you in others' ears
If he often mentions you with his friends, he undoubtedly likes you. Because boys will never talk about a disgusting person every day, and they would like to never mention it.
See if he likes to tease you
Boys generally like to play with girls. According to their ideas, this can make them happy. Ha ha, but for girls they hate, they usually avoid them. So, if he often makes you angry and tries to make you happy, then of course he has a good opinion of you.
Make sure that the boys like you mainly depends on the details! This problem is about feeling, not like and love. Therefore, when a person has feelings about you, he or she is not as enthusiastic as when he or she likes you and pursues you. Some details are very important.
Because details are the key to judge one person's real thoughts about another person. It depends on what he does and what he does, not what he hears from men.
So, what behaviors can show that a boy feels for you?
① Boys who have feelings for you will seize the opportunity to get along with you more.
② Boys who have feelings for you will always pay attention to your every move.
③ The boy who has feelings for you will be betrayed by his body language
④ Boys who have feelings for you will notice your needs and difficulties and want to help you.
⑤ It's easy to be jealous of the boy you feel.
How should we observe and judge these points in real life?
1. See if he can get close to you
When a boy has feelings for you, he will want to be more clear about whether his feelings for you are correct, and he will seize all opportunities to get along with you.
Because once boys confirm that their feelings are right, they will want to plan to take the next step. Therefore, if a boy often appears around you for various reasons recently and can be seen every other time, he may already have feelings for you and want to have further understanding and contact with you.
Of course, there is an exception here. For avoidant dependence and sexual narcissism, as well as boys with low self-esteem, it may be the opposite. Instead, they will avoid you.
2. See if his attention is on you
If you have the opportunity to participate in some group activities, such as company group building, friend gathering, etc., you need to pay attention to see if his attention is always on you.
If you look at him four times and meet his smiling eyes three times, then we can basically confirm that the boy has feelings for you.
On the contrary, if at such a party, he only cares about playing, talking to one person, drinking with another person, and giving you the same time as others, then you are just a common friend in his eyes.
3. Look at his body language
Some boys are shy and not good at words. We can't judge whether they have feelings for you from his words, but a person's body language can't be hidden. People's small actions and body micro expressions are the best way to sell a person's psychological activities quietly.
If
When a boy gets along with you, whether standing or sitting, the front of his body always leans towards you
When crossing the road, I unconsciously raised my arms behind you to protect you
When many people are present, they always want to be near you
And as soon as you speak, you will turn your face to listen to you,
Even though the boy has never told you anything in language, he must have feelings for you in his heart.
The mouth can lie, and the unconscious body language can not deceive people.
4. See if he is eager to help you
All boys have a dream of heroes, especially when they are heroes in front of girls they care about. In the peaceful and prosperous times, there are not many opportunities for boys to save the world, so boys will be particularly careful to find the difficulties and needs of girls they care about, and actively want to help you show yourself.
If
A boy in front of you will always find that you did not eat on time, to remind or even criticize you;
When I buy water for everyone, I buy you your favorite drink;
When you do some work but are in a hurry, I want to help you finish it;
If you have something to ask him for help, he is always willing to help you and will do his best to complete it;
After working overtime with colleagues, they will wait for you no matter how late they are, or even send you home. When you get home, they will ask if you have arrived,
Then it is true that this boy has feelings for you.
5. See if he has jealous possessiveness
Seeing you contact other boys, even if it is just a common contact, he will also show unhappiness or make fun of you. When he finds someone chasing you, he will unconsciously show contempt for the boy. Then, it means that he has already had the desire to possess, and probably has already felt for you.
Most boys are likely to show the above performance when they have feelings for another girl.
You want to make sure whether you feel boys, even if any of the above items appear, you can secretly rejoice. He has feelings for you, but don't be happy too early, because sometimes boys' feelings may come and go quickly.
