When talking about girlfriends, boys need to be a little more proactive. You should learn to chat with girls and talk with them. For example, if you don't know what to talk about with girls, you can read more books, watch movies and TV plays, and talk about your favorite things with girls, and there will be topics to talk about.
In addition, don't forget to be generous and not too stingy with girls. Use your sincerity and generosity to impress girls, and girls will be willing to communicate with you.
How to talk about girlfriend skills? A girl is usually introverted in the process of love, so as a man, we may want to take the initiative to talk about some topics. We all know that chatting with each other is skilled. Here are some tips on how to talk about girlfriend skills.
The first skill is to show your true side to the other party.
Let the other party intuitively feel your personality from what you do, which can give a good first impression. In the later stage, the woman will not alienate you because of differences in personality or living habits, and most girls will hope that both parties will be frank in love without concealing.
Since we can invite girls to go on a date, we have already succeeded in half. Previously, I had a friend who could not even make an appointment with his sister, which was far from success. I talked with him once and asked him to learn how to love. After that, more than 10 days later, I successfully met two girls and invited me to dinner every three days to express my gratitude. In fact, I was very pleased.
Next, let's introduce the second tip to learn to say no.
In many love cases, boys always behave very nice to their girlfriends. No matter how ridiculous or boring their girlfriends' demands are, they will always obey and meet them. In fact, this is wrong. In a love relationship, both parties are equal. If you pamper the other party indefinitely, when you inadvertently make mistakes, girls will think that you don't love her enough and cause a series of quarrels. Therefore, they should learn to refuse and welcome when appropriate.
The third skill is the courage to take responsibility.
Learn to admit that since you like her, there is no need to care about the so-called man's face. A man can bend and stretch. If you say that you have done something too much or said something you should not say when you quarrel, you must learn to admit mistakes and take the initiative at this time. If you admit mistakes passively, it will further intensify the conflict.
The last practical skill is to think from the perspective of girls.
You should give her enough face in front of her friends. In fact, you are also fighting for face to protect his face. Don't tell her right or wrong in front of your relatives and friends. This is not only bad for her, but also bad for you. Learning to protect her will not only give her a sense of security, but also increase others' respect for you.
It's not that difficult to find a girlfriend. I think there are three simple steps.
The first point: dress in a fashionable and elegant manner, and smell pleasant.
A woman may have a one night stand with a beggar, but she cannot have a romantic relationship with a beggar, because if she becomes a romantic relationship, she will sooner or later bring the man to her friend, and she does not want to get such embarrassment and embarrassment. Therefore, I hope that you will wear clothes that will make her feel proud when she takes you out. This does not mean that you should become a fashionable singer. I mean that the simplest elements of clothes should be at least clean, cut properly, and look like they are tailored for you.
Men can be not handsome, but your dress will involve the first impression you give. According to the thinking of the product manager, this is the problem of user experience.
We all hope that women will dress appropriately and look sweet, so women also hope that men will do so. I believe you will not take a woman who does not wash her face, comb her hair, wear sneakers and silk socks to go out.
Point 2: About dating
I have been involved in gender communication and emotional training for many years, and I am aware of the problem that every beautiful woman a man meets regards as his "potential target"... This is really a problem.
When women often go out on dates with men, they will think: You make a good impression on me, I want to know more about you, and I want to go out with you to see how we develop.
Men will think like this: Fuck you, you are too beautiful. I am a little nervous about going out with you. In fact, I have taken you as my potential target for dating from the bottom of my heart... or at least a one night stand.
In other words, women often go out with men easily and happily, while men always show that they want to treat her as a "potential target", which is an asymmetry in demand.
Then their date began to become boring and serious, just like the nervous feeling of referring to the college entrance examination. Next, women felt that the man was not good, and then there was no later
So, I hope you don't do this. Just go on a normal date and enjoy the interaction.
Step 3: Don't think about how to find a girlfriend.
This is a very important step. I hope you don't think that I must find a girlfriend. This idea, because it will put you into the trap of a "man with a strong demand for women".
As a man, your job is to bring joy and fun to the current woman spontaneously. You should forget the development direction of your relationship and whether you are in a relationship. Over the years, I have seen the best relationship often happen like this, and you don't need to worry about the label of "what relationship we are now", You just realize at some point in the future that you and her are inseparable now, and then you can say to her: Hey, I guess you are my girlfriend now!
That's it.
In order to show that you don't want a girlfriend, the best way is not to really look for a girlfriend, but to relax, to focus on the moment, to give your best, and to have a wonderful time with anyone who was with you at that moment. Wish you good luck and enjoy yourself.
