When we have a relationship, we should never give up easily, because it's really hard to lose it. Besides, only when you have made a lot of efforts to restore the relationship, can you say love without regret, right?
First, you should reflect on what is the reason for this? Only then do you know what to do, find a chance to calm down and communicate with him, control your emotions and talk to him, maybe you will have unexpected gains
Between lovers, it is inevitable to quarrel. Maybe it is just a trivial matter, and sometimes it can make two people quarrel.
The other party is determined to break up, but you want to save it! In this case, the difficulty coefficient of recovery is relatively large, but there is still a 50% hope. After all, human emotion is subtle. It will heat up the emotion due to the efforts of one party, and eventually be warmed and moved, and then let the other party accept your feelings for her again. Therefore, as long as you make up your mind, do not give up, and then pay through a series of efforts, it is also very possible to retrieve this emotion.
How can we recover a person who is determined to break up in life?
1、 Respect each other's ideas, give each other a period of calm, and then self reflection.
Since the other party is determined to break up, she may not listen to what you say now. Therefore, you'd better not argue with the other party again. After all, the more entangled, the more repulsive the other party will be. Therefore, respect each other's opinions, agree on a cooling off period, and conduct serious self-examination. Since the other party is determined to break up, it means that you have shortcomings that she cannot tolerate in life. These shortcomings must be reminded by the other party many times, and you have been incorrigible. Now, after reflection, you should understand that this is because you use the other party's love and tolerance for you to blatantly bully the other party, so that the other party will feel that you are becoming more and more unreasonable, more and more unhappy with you, and then be extremely disappointed with you, and will definitely break up with you.
2、 Take the initiative to admit your mistakes, sincerely apologize, and let the other party give you a chance to repair your feelings.
Since you know it is your own problem, you need to take the initiative to find the other party and apologize. You should firmly tell the other party that you don't want to break up and the importance of the other party in your mind, and then tell the other party that you should completely change yourself and let the other party supervise you for the sake of your love and the kindness of the other party to yourself. Therefore, I hope the other party will give me another chance to finally repair my feelings. If I still cannot satisfy the other party, I will finally break up and I will comply. Come to think of it, with such a sincere attitude and thinking of all your good deeds in the past, the other party will certainly be soft hearted and want to give your love another chance.
3、 In accordance with the requirements of the other party, try to correct their own problems, and then care for the other party in every detail of life.
If the other party does not oppose your requirements and gives you opportunities, you need to show yourself well in life. On the one hand, you need to work hard to correct your own shortcomings. On the other hand, in the next life, you need to be more considerate and concerned about each other, so that she can feel your full love for him. Come to think of it, your efforts will be felt by the other party. What's more, after many years of love, they say that breaking up is often their own helpless act in many cases. What's more, the two people who really love each other want their feelings to have a good foothold, rather than just a sad experience in their own lives.
4、 When the other party encounters difficulties, you must help the other party as quickly as possible, so that the other party will be moved by your efforts.
Difficulties are inevitable in life. When you need help, you must not be stingy with your own efforts, and you should give help to the other party at the first time. Especially when the other person has health problems and weak heart, you should give her substantive help, buy medicine for her, take her to the doctor, and cook a bowl of porridge for her. Or when you are criticized by your boss for being depressed, you should know how to relieve her worries, give him some reasonable suggestions, take her to do sports, and then vent your feelings well. Such meticulous care, I think, will be moved by it.
5、 Send warmth and gifts to each other on special days, create various romances, and let the other person feel your deep love for her.
The best way to express love is to love each other with actions, and send our blessings and love to her on the days she cares about. Therefore, we should prepare gifts carefully and express our love for each other. Therefore, the gift should be innovative, distinctive, and give the other party what they desire and need. In this way, your intentions will naturally let the other party know your true feelings for her. So as to completely forgive you and make up with you.
The other party is determined to break up, and you want to recover. Then you need to work hard to correct your own shortcomings and pay more hard, so that the other person will realize her importance in your mind and the indispensable nature under your action, and she will be willing to start a new relationship with you. But you must remember that any emotional contribution is continuous, otherwise, love will still disappear, and this intimate relationship between each other will come to an end.
Seven Steps to Save the Girlfriend Who Breaks up Resolutely
1. Cut off the negative connection first.
Think about it. Why did the girl break up with you? It must be because she was completely disappointed with you in the process of getting along with you, so now no matter what you do, she has a negative attitude.
At this time, many fraternities apologized to the girls and admitted their mistakes. This is OK, but you can't lay down the bottom line too much, because in this way, when your own framework and value are too low, the other party will not pay attention, you will be more difficult, and even put yourself in the line of licking the dog.
So at this time, you should cut off all negative contacts with the other party, and do not entangle with the other party too much. She wants to break up. Just agree that you don't care. I tell you, this will calm the other party down, because for girls, this seems to be an unexpected move, even a bit attractive.
2. Find out the reason for breaking up.
As I said just now, this girl is determined to break up with you because she is disappointed in you, but why is she disappointed in you? Disappointment is that she has expectations for you, but you haven't given her the state she wants. She can't see the future, so she chooses to abandon you. So when you know the reason for breaking up, you should start with the fundamental problem. For example, if you want to provide emotional value for the other party, this emotional value is not to let you talk to a girl and coax her, but to say something that can touch her heart.
For example, when a girl enters her physiological period, you should not say anything to her at this time, but drink more hot water. You can tell her that I know you are not feeling well. I love you very much. As long as you need me, I will always be with you. In this way, the other person will feel that she can rely on you, her heart will be supported, and her feelings for you will be different.
3. Accept your mistakes pointed out by the other party
When the opposite side proposes to break up with you, it is often because you have the other side's intolerable behavior. When you break up, the other side points out your problems, and you should learn to accept them, instead of arguing with the other side, denying the other side's words, and you stand on the opposite side of the other side, not only can not reduce the contradiction between you, but also can make the contradiction continue to rise, even more contradictions appear.
4. Transform yourself and improve the connotation
You also need to improve your soft value and content. You can't be like a blank sheet of paper, which can easily let people see through you. The best way to have connotation is to expand the circle and contact people who are more mature and stable than you. Remember that no one will like a man who has a bad temper. Also, read books. Never read jokes, anime books, or even novels. Books must be selected correctly. Why should they have connotation? Because such men are the most masculine in women's eyes, You must remodel yourself, change your thinking, learn to think in terms of others, and keep pace with the times
5. Take action
As men, we must be cheeky and take the initiative to save our girlfriends. Girls are usually thin skinned, and sometimes even if they think in their hearts, they will not say it out. So we must go to coax her well, and let her see her changes, so that she can feel that she has changed her bad habits for her. Of course, do not be too clinging to each other, or it will easily cause others' aversion. We also need to know romance. Send gifts and flowers when appropriate. Let her feel that you really love her and want to save her.
6. Get along as friends
Get along as an ordinary friend and recover her. Many people were eager to get back to her at the beginning and get back together. In fact, what you really need to compound is your feelings! When your feelings are restored in place, isn't it a natural thing to have a composite relationship?! So in the early stage, she first got along with ordinary friends, slowly improved the emotional temperature, entered her life as an ordinary friend, let her slowly take off her guard, and then find opportunities to pursue again.
7. Finally, stick to it.
I tell you that if you want to save the girl who is determined to break up with you, you must check it, because if she is determined to break up with you, it means that in the next long period of time, she will remain indifferent to you, and will not smile or be patient in front of you. Of course, her behavior is actually to tell herself not to be soft hearted and not to be saved easily by you, so she lets herself show the impression of breaking up.
