How to recover a completely disappointed girl? Then we will change from his disappointment. Maybe before, he thought you didn't care enough about him, and thought you wouldn't say some sweet words to him. So from now on, we will change slowly. Although you are embarrassed to tell him your love, we can let him feel your love from some small details. For example, we can edit a long love letter for him. Since you can't say it, we can write it. This can not only express your love, but also prevent you from being shy. If a girl is disappointed with the boy, it must be in the process of getting along with him. The boy did something that made him very angry. For example, when he made plans for this relationship with all his heart, the boy not only didn't appreciate it, but thought he was an eventful girl. In fact, this is the most unbearable thing for girls, so if you want to recover her completely, from this moment on, we should learn to communicate with your beloved girl and learn to do it.
Before saving your girlfriend, first deal with your repressed emotions. Before you save your disappointed girlfriend, it's better to release the sadness of lovelorn completely. No matter how strong you are, you will shed sad tears in the face of the past. Crying in love is not a crime. Let both sides calm down for a while. If you are immersed in the pain of lovelorn, you will certainly hope that the other party will come back to comfort your heart. Then we must vent the sadness of lovelorn, and then make plans. Analyze the reason of lovelorn and determine the direction of recovery. You may break up because of something or someone, so think about what it is, rationally analyze what is wrong and what is not good enough. Then analyze the seriousness of the situation. What should you do to make the other party trust you again? If you can't figure it out by yourself, asking the other party to come out and have a peaceful talk a week after the breakup is a way to help you find out the reason for the breakup.
When we face a sudden breakup, our first reaction must be that we don't believe, don't believe that the other party is really cruel, don't believe that the other party really has no feelings for themselves, don't believe that the other party really doesn't care about their feelings, don't believe that the other party really may not care about their own life and death. So most people break up, especially those who think their mistakes have caused the breakup. In the first stage, they will constantly show their pain. First, they are really hard. After all, it was your own mistake that led to the departure of the other party. Second, subconsciously, they also want to make the other party love themselves and make the other party reluctant to leave. As a result, as the other party more and more firmly refuses, you will gradually understand the cruel fact that the other party can really be so cruel to you, and can really do it regardless of your life.
The way to save a woman who is disappointed in you:
1. Devoutly admit mistakes to women
If you want to retain a woman's sincerity, your heart must be devout enough. You should learn to self review. You should reflect deeply on yourself. Where you are not doing well and where women are dissatisfied.
When you realize that you have made a mistake, you should be pious enough to confess your mistakes to women. It is normal for a man to make mistakes occasionally in his relationship. The most important thing is to know his mistakes can be corrected, not to avoid responsibility, but to dare to take responsibility. Only such a man can retain a disheartened woman's heart.
2. Correct mistakes and avoid repeating mistakes
If you want to keep a frustrated woman, you ask her to forgive you this time. You must correct your mistakes immediately. For example, you should be loyal enough to a woman, and you should not play with her feelings at will. For example, no matter how busy you are, you should know how to spend time with her. You must not put her aside like before.
3. Grasp the key to the problem and solve the main contradiction
You need to carefully analyze why a woman is so frustrated that she has lost her heart to you, and where you may not satisfy her. Secondly, you should correct the main problems immediately. Another point is that you should understand what women need.
When you really know how to protect her cold heart, you will have the opportunity to really enter her emotional world, and you can rub the spark of love with her. No matter in life or spirit, if you can give her enough sense of security and belonging, women will be likely to follow you wholeheartedly.
The reference method for how to recover a woman who has been disappointed in you is as follows:
1. There should be no more fluke psychology in reflection and integration. The only way for a truly wrong person to change his view is to correct his own mistakes.
2. Don't think she is disappointed in you when you find a need. You will be useless to her.
The girl is just disappointed. She is not a fool. Who would be with a person who doesn't like her at all and only disappoints her? Disappointments are accumulated, and what supports you to get along is that you must have a point that can attract her. What is needed is to find this point, and then enlarge it,
3. Marginal contact When we begin to reflect and improve our own value laterally, the possibility of the other party paying attention to us is great.
Because one slap can't make a sound. Even if she is disappointed with you, don't feel that after the breakup, you are the only one who is sad. The other party must also pay attention to you at some uncomfortable moment.
However, the huge sense of contrast caused by your change is easy to make her question the breakup, which is a complex emotion for the other party.
Mixed with doubts, regret, self blame and so on. Generally speaking, she may not have the intention of getting back together with you at this time, but it is already acceptable for her to get along properly and let you continue to exist in the life circle. So it is necessary to start a tentative marginal contact and first step back into her life circle
4. After reversing the impression to create a new attraction and returning to the other party's life circle, never rush to bring up the topic of feelings. Because at this time, your negative impression in the other person's mind has not completely disappeared, even if it has completely disappeared, it does not mean that you like it. Therefore, we need to stop communication. In this limited communication, let the other party experience the existence of our changing facts, which is easy to attract the other party's deeper attention to us. On this node, increase the "content input" to the "common communication platform". For example, show more exquisite life in the circle of friends. Compared with previous changes, foreign trade, clothing, life fun and rules.
Our previous efforts need to be implemented at this stage. In this stage, communication must not be excessive. It needs to be concise and valuable. It can make the other party feel relaxed, so that they can let go of their bad feelings.
5. Frankly apologize After a period of getting along, the new intimate relationship you have established can support you to face the previous problems. At this time, you need to sincerely apologize to the other party. This apology is owed to the other party before, for the interruption of just breaking up, and for yourself who has always given the other party a bad emotional experience. When the other party accepts your apology, it indicates that both of you have cut off the old intimate relationship, which means that both of you have begun to acquiesce and accept the new intimate relationship.
6. Strengthen the intimate relationship. Of course, what you strengthen is the newly created intimate relationship. At this time, it is not necessary to properly mention the past events to remind the other party of their memories. What we are doing is still a new way of getting along, to dispel the disappointment of the other party. The lack of feelings between you is not rigid. The less disappointed you are, the easier it will become to feel the same for you.
What you need to create is an environment that is valuable enough, desirable enough, and easy enough for girls to rely on your new image.
