We should dare to face loneliness, not escape from it, not inferiority complex, and clearly know that loneliness is not terrible, and loneliness is terrible in our hearts. Being a person who has a heart of the sea, believe in ourselves, and face the loss brought by loneliness, we should keep our hearts strong to resist this sense of loneliness. Learn to get used to this kind of loneliness and even enjoy it, because the next life will be very lonely. After high school, most people will step into adulthood and have their own life circle. Loneliness will come one after another. It may become more and more, which will make you unprepared, so you must let yourself accept this kind of loneliness.
In fact, most of the time, it is not because I put my mind on games and entertainment gossip. Other compatible students will also focus on these aspects. I think you should put your own thoughts in order, not to lose your true self in order to get along with others.
In fact, you will find that they are not really gregarious. They also have their own caution and interests. Many times, they join in order to make themselves appear gregarious. And their so-called gregarious people don't get along very well. They often "keep company" to make themselves appear not lonely.
So you don't have to worry about how you always feel bad about yourself. Yes, sometimes you have some minor problems, but I personally think that the fundamental problems other than moral quality are not major problems.
What should I do if I am lonesome
1. Use your social time for struggle.
In fact, those who are in good company with others and have a lot of friends around them, the phone rings all day long, there are all kinds of appointments and social engagements, and they can't get away from it. It seems very busy, but I'm tired all day long, but I don't know what I'm busy with.
Useless social interaction will consume a lot of time. It seems that everyone supports your cause, but when it comes to the critical time, no one is willing to help you, you can see who is sincere and who is hypocritical.
Success depends on oneself, and the interpersonal relationship is the power of success, but it will not be the main force of success. Therefore, people who are not gregarious use their social time to struggle, clench their teeth and persevere.
2. Introverted, but not lonely.
People who don't fit in with others, seemingly lonely, actually know how to be alone and enjoy loneliness. When you are alone, you can gain insight into your own heart, talk with your heart, and understand yourself deeply.
When you are alone, it is to get rid of troubles, think about life, and identify the people around you, rather than blindly trust and rely on whom.
Solitude is a kind of ability. It is a kind of cultivation, which can make the mind stronger, get rid of dependence on others, and really be yourself. For a long time, the fate is naturally in your own hands, rather than being controlled by others.
Seeing yourself clearly is an important factor for success. People who overestimate themselves often fail to make a mess. Those who are successful, do what they can, step by step, and make their life go further and more stable.
3. Words are few, but words are true.
People who are not sociable do not have nothing to say, do not have no words, but understand "silence". The things we know, we know them all; Don't talk about things you don't know; Listen to others and be a bystander when you have only a little knowledge.
Ungregarious people, who happen to be "onlookers see clearly", can always see the authenticity of an event and grasp the dynamics of its development.
If the unsociable people say something to whom, they will certainly do it. Such a person, who is "a man of words, can never be recalled", will not be a boaster, and will not be outspoken and outspoken.
Because what you say is trustworthy and an important foundation for success in life.
4. People who don't fit in with others have different small circles.
People who are not gregarious do not have a single friend, but have their own small circle, which still conforms to the rule of "people divide into groups".
A small circle may be just a few people, but it must be able to become business partners and work together to make our business bigger and stronger.
Circles don't care about size, but about warmth. Those huge circles, which seem to be valiant, are actually "scattered sand". On the contrary, those small alliances are the "mainstays".
